Is there something that I could do since I am a newbie to Charlotte...?

Must be the time of the year, many providers are on vacation now.

I just deleted this one.


Hi there
Do you see guys in their mid 20's and do you also offer bbbj, cim in additon to gfe? Are you open minded and finally I would like to know how much you weigh currently.  thanks.

WTH are you kidding me.

I just KNOW my time with him (After the chasing and haggling) would be well spent........NOT!!!

Not saying you are doing this but this one reason I and other ladies don't responded.
Also I get calls after my posted time I don't answer and I surely don't call back.

If you are reading all of her info and following her protocol then may be she is not interested in you. For some this is not all about the money. Just a thought good luck Livie.

P.S. if he read ANY of my info he would have all the answers he is looking for.

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Really depends on what you say or don't say in that message.  A lot of times i will see that someone is calling (i do not asnwer my biznez phone  during work hours) and will not leave message at all.  Obviously those calls are not getting returned.

Another type of calls that NEVER get returned are the ones where message mentions rates  or specific acts.


Come on .. if you were able to find my number then you should also have access to rates/hours/reviews information.


Just this Saturday i have received about 5 calls asking me where my incall was.  Duuuuuh!

What is the best way to contact any provider?  Detailed message telling when and where she can reach you or better yet e mail detailing who you are and when you would like to book.

Kisses

Lina

I call I have not used email yet.  They have been CL posts w/o email replies available.  Is that too much of a rookie move?

I have been calling with my phone going unanswered... I got one answer and asked where to meet the provider she told me to call when I was on my way to the direction and never picked up again.

Do you suggest leaving alone the CL posts too?

Dear Edwin,

I am so glad you found TER and this newbie board!  I always recommend my newbie friends to seek out established, well reviewed providers.  You are almost guaranteed to have good experiences taking that route.

Pay attention to where the reviewer talks about how easy is was to schedule with the provider.  Many providers who are great in session are not great at returning calls or e-mails.

Beware of Craig's List.  CL is the wild, wild west of the hobby.  There are many scams, rip-offs and dangers out there.  Do you really think you are experienced enough to find the needle in that haystack?  

Unless the providers are well reviewed, you don't know what you are getting yourself into.  Study review boards, do your research and then pick the best lady for you.    

I hope you stay safe and have wonderful hobby experiences.  That is why TER exists.


Happy Hobbying,
Sarah Nicole

I'm not saying you can't find a good experience on CL, however, if ladies are not even picking up your call, I think you should try another website. Why not lurk on your local board, it's to the left under regional boards, in the drop down window. You might read a post from a lady that's interesting and then you can check her out on TER.  You can also do a search in your area by looking at the reviews. You should also get VIP membership Whatever you do, make sure to research the lady BEFORE you call. Good luck

First off, when you call is your phone number blocked? Most ladies don't return calls from a blocked phone number...

Most ladies but not all will talk with a newbie and see if they can verify you in some way..This does make me wonder if your saying something that is not safe for them to answer.Do you ask questions about price or service in your message?

There are plenty of reviewed ladies on TER who do advertise on CL to choose from..Do try again but just leave the info about yourself with phone number and best times to call. When you dial their phone number press  *82 and her phone number to be sure your number is unblocked..See if that helps..

Good Luck
Kisses Haley

I know that Cl get's a lot of bad rep and rightfuly so.  Although there are legit Ladies who were advertising there before proverbial s&^t has hit the fan.

Personally, I know longer use that site.  Very convenient yet very risky.

XoXO

Lina

Honey, I think your first mistake is looking for "kitty" on CL   there are too many beautiful providers here to go anywhere else!
Hey, i'm partial, what can i say!
Jay

You can reply to their email through CL "reply", The ad poster receives it almost instanteously.

Maybe the providers are closer to your cost range there, if that is important I guess you have to do what you have to do. But there are other sites with less hassle.

Even as a provider, CL brought me a different type of call...People asking where I was located before asking my name....People with explicit requests...BUT when I used it I always received the email that they forwarded.

You must read their ads carefully, look at their hours carefully and call during their hours. At least give a first name and a time to call you back and inform them that you are interested in an appointment.

Everyone has said it all and there are beautiful ladies here as well.

Good luck out there.
Madalyn