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Eventually you will send your real name to a provider
graydon 1100 reads
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in an email.  What's the difference if your real name is in the address or the body of an email?  (And if they were really serious, LE could track down your name by other means.)Don't sweat it; do your research and only send emails to well reviewed, experienced providers, and you will have very low risk of having your name exposed.

JeremyBlack3063 reads

i signed up for a free email account just for using while I hobby.  When I filled out the info I used my real name.  Do you think this will be a problem?  when I send out an email my real name shows up.  I was wondering if LE ever got a hold of my email address could they get at me because I used my real name when I signed up?

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geekorama1195 reads

It's possible.  I'd change it.

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graydon1101 reads

in an email.  What's the difference if your real name is in the address or the body of an email?  (And if they were really serious, LE could track down your name by other means.)Don't sweat it; do your research and only send emails to well reviewed, experienced providers, and you will have very low risk of having your name exposed.

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AlfredReader726 reads

I have never sent my real name to a provider in an e-mail.  Only a few know it and only after years of seeing them.  There is no need to send it to them.

And on my hobby e-mails I never use my real full name.  Again, no reason to.

I'm not embarased but I also try not to be needlessly careless.

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RedCloak1039 reads

Yeah, dude.  You can change the name in your e-mail From field and you should do it.  Only give your full name to providers who you are actually going to see (about to finalize an appointment).

As a newbie, you will undoubtedly not have a 100% e-mail to appointment conversion rate and therefore your real name will be in more places than it should be.  Minimize your exposure.  

Play safe!

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Carrie Hillcrest1088 reads

Yes, you'll very likely need to provide it each time you want to be screened (especially as a newbie), but that doesn't mean it needs to be all over *every* email you send.

However, please don't change the "from" name to something sex-related (Haywood Jablome, Harry Pecker, Iluv Daty, etc.) or a female name. The first is corny (in the bad way) can send up red flags. I have a very difficult time replying to emails that have a female "from name", because I have had clients accidentally email me from, er, someone else's account before. Also avoid very very common names like "John Smith" unless you want your email lost in her inbox.

Your handle (provided J. Black isn't your real name) IS a good option. Or a combination of your handle and your city/state (Jeremy Mooselookmeguntic, for exampe).

But if you're from Bald Knob or Beaver Lick, please refer to the previous paragraph. ;)

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hound_dog691332 reads

As stated, you may need to provide a true name for some providers screening. Assuming you're comfortable with that, don't do it via your hobby email. I never send my name, phone or other contact info via my hobby email. If you have to send it, do so via a separate communication path - separate email account for example, or by voice.

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shudaknownbetter1646 reads

I have my real FIRST NAME ONLY on my hobby e-mail, not the e-account.  I registered the account with first name & only a Last initial.  I have given my full name for screening but do not need it on every communication that goes out.  LE really will not need to trace you through e-mail...  they can get ISP for a criminal investigation with the correct subpoena.  
Hobby e-mail is more of a protection from friends & family who might see your normal email over your shoulder sometime.    NEVER access your hobby account when there are others in your area.  I'd edit this account if you can, if not delete it & start a new one.
skb

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ReneeRose755 reads

LE can do whatever they want, whether you do it right or wrong.

Even a "free" account, anyone with a little knowledge can back track the IP address you sent the email from & get your location.

This entire industry is a huge risk.. but it's that what makes it interesting?

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shudaknownbetter808 reads

E-mails are forever.  You should never write anything incriminating in an e-mail.  Some things are best whispered between the sheets.

Never the less, private business should be separated from normal activities.
skb

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NadiaDarling842 reads

I feel like the client should be able to provide his number and perhaps first name (if he wishes) in an email. True there is no way to stop LE from tracking it down, it may take a while but they can do it. But IMHO, d-e-t-a-i-l-s should be kept to at the meeting or on the phone once everybody is comfortable.

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