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mrfisher 115 Reviews 6363 reads
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and while I have not used it, some posters have recommended it as a wonderful way to tell if a photo was stolen from elsewhere.

Can anyone clue scovig in on this?

scovig 24 Reviews 2171 reads
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How far can you go when trying to confirm that a provider's photos are accurate if there are no previous reviews for her? Is it going to far to insinuate over the phone that you aren't interested in "following through" if the girl that shows up is not the girl in the picture?

hound_dog69 41 Reviews 760 reads
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and in theory, if you were pleasant about it she might not get upset. Some will get VERY annoyed.

I supposed you could politely ask if the photos are hers and current. If she gets upset, then assume they aren't either. If she says they are, then you can justify walking if they aren't when you arrive.

shudaknownbetter 696 reads
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reviewed providers.   A girl with NO reviews??   How about a web site?  So, all you have is a photo in an ad...   There are all sorts of things that could go wrong in this scenerio...    

With only an ad to go on, one can ask if the pictures are current.  (By reading reviews, I found one hottie I'd been watching was using old pictures, was not 10 years older & sporting lots of tats which is not my style.)   I'm especially wary if the same photos are used over & over.
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impposter 49 Reviews 2130 reads
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I stick to well reviewed providers but others have suggested asking her to send you a recent photo maybe snapped on her cell phone. Some guys start sounding like the FBI or scam busters by asking for a specific pose or to have something written on a piece of paper or that day's newspaper.

As far as "walking" is concerned, most guys say it's OK as long (1) you have good reason (bait and switch; not the girl in the photos) (2) you are safe and (3) it depends on incall or outcall. Some guys will pay a portion of the fee to cover her outcall travel expense unless the B&S is really, really bad.

scovig 24 Reviews 510 reads
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Posted By: scovig
How far can you go when trying to confirm that a provider's photos are accurate if there are no previous reviews for her? Is it going to far to insinuate over the phone that you aren't interested in "following through" if the girl that shows up is not the girl in the picture?
Thanks for all the input. Back story below;
The same girl had the same pics up on multiple sites. They looked TGTBT. She ended up telling me, via text that she initiated, that they were 6 months old. I was ready to invite her over but then she started quoting all the "extra charges" would be tacked on for items that were thought to be included. I'm not a fan of being upsold so I politely declined.

ziggy440 84 Reviews 1120 reads
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Think about it from her point of view. If you are dealing with a reputable provider, you have just insulted her by suggesting she is not trustworthy, and if it really is a B&S situation, they are not going to admit it. So all you are doing is potentially pissing off a good provider with no expectation of getting any useful information.

You can surely walk if the girl you see is not the girl in the pictures (but, as posted, that will not be the case if you use the reviews), but the best solution is to avoid the situation, avoid insulting people and stay safe - use the reviews.

But I would never, ever say that to someone because the only possible result is that you are screening out good providers.

Zig

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