should be left in the plain envelope where the escort can see it. Some people then excuse themselves to the bathroom to take a quick shower, so the escort can check and make sure that she is not being short changed.
Tips are not necessary and one should only give them if there is a very good rapport with the provider - at least that's what I do personally.
This question should probably belong to the Newbie Board.
Your time spent with me is the same tip or no tip. For me the best tip I could get is an e-mail telling me what a wonderful time you had and that you plan to return real soon. If you do want to give the lady a little extra don't hand it to her but place it somewhere and mention you left a little extra.
Generally speaking most gentlemen leave their donation in the bathroom or the kitchen counter or possibly the coffee table with no mention of it at all. Never mention money or services as this will or could raise a red flag and ruin your good time.
Do visit the Newbie Board and start reading as much as possible. Do searches on things that might help you with finding and receiving the best possible time available. It's a great place to ask questions such as this with no one leaving you some shorted help or explanation. Don't worry all the seasoned friendly hobbyists and providers venture over to the newbie board to give assistance so it's not just the blind leading the blind.
The general board is not for the faint at heart and can go from friendly conversation to down out war in seconds. Save yourself from being hit by a renegade bullet and read this board for awhile or just post under the conversations that interest you. I have been tossed from the frying pan to the fire and quickly roasted myself so it's not just being a newbie.
Kisses Haley
other than laying the envelope where she can see it and pick it up whenever she wants to.
Many ladies will tell you that the best tip you can give them is to say, I really enjoyed myself, thank you so much for everything. Can I see you again day after tomorrow?
In other words scheduling another "date" is the best tip (or at least I've been told).
Props for the pic...that's hot..but u can tell she's thinking how many of these can I grab after the photoshoot lmao.
so before or after is fine. Most guys usually just go slip a lil something in the envelope without saying a word about it, or they hand it to her flat out. No appropriate amount, as we are not exactly bartenders lol. The 20 percent rule does not apply here.
...I slipped one of the girls that I was seeing a $50 Apple Gift Card. She seemed to be one of the Apple devotees. She was appreciative and it didn't break my bank either.
Typically, lot of sophisticated providers will have their wish list on their websites.
My back was broken after the session, but that's a different story...
So my point is, that I do tip sometimes albeit very rarely, and its not even that much. Its just a gesture that I really like what you have to offer.
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Posted By: London Rayne
so before or after is fine. Most guys usually just go slip a lil something in the envelope without saying a word about it, or they hand it to her flat out. No appropriate amount, as we are not exactly bartenders lol. The 20 percent rule does not apply here.
too funny ...yea could you imagine if afterwards the sp was like hey I'm not that type of girl and got all offended.
Personally I think spending extra on the SP is a must but for completely different reasons than most guys....ahh silly fetishes.
My "mentor" that introduced me to this fascinating world told me to NEVER tip. I will encourage the lady to up her fees. Pay her what she charges and never negotiate.
Posted By: manforfun2012
I am new to this area and I am wondering anyone can tell me how much is appropriate for the tips and when the tip is delivered? at the front or at the end? Thanks.
....but I recommend you do it after. If you decide to tip eh 10-20% is fine. I dunno how many ladies are going to frown at extra money even if it's just an extra 20, 30, 40 lmao. FYI if a tip is asked for or pushed/forced/implied.....it isn't a tip....that's hustling.
That way, you can assess how enthusiastic or good they was after the session has taken place. Like the barber, or the server at your restaurant, you don't tip them at the beginning because you don't know how they will perform. It would be kinda pointless to tip them in the beginning. If you do, and she doesn't deliver, then you've wasted money.
As for the amount of tip, maybe its just me, but, it all depends on her performance. I also don't do the 15% or 25% thing either. For example, if I see a $300 an hour provider, and if she is good, I'll tip her an extra $60-$100. I usually tip $60 at the $300 range. If you have only $20, then $20 is also appropriate too. Some guys don't believe in tips. I tip because I feel that the fee doesn't adequately cover her service.
I don't always tip. If she doesn't deliver, then I won't tip. If she does deliver and exceed my expectations, then I will tip. Don't make it a habit though, I use to tip girls $60 every time, despite them not deliver. Now, if they don't deliver, then they won't get a tip.
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The rate is all-inclusive, unless she does something she didn't agree to in session, such as extra time, another pop or many, anal, etc.
It's always nice to show some appreciation by tipping, but in the escorting world, tipping is more of a rare occurrence than it is in, say, bodyrub, where you generally tip as a rule, and tip well if she does more than the bodyrub.
