So i've been with a provider before in the escort field but have never gone to a lady under the category of 'erotic massages'. I searched for some in my area and found one with really good reviews and I called her up and she was very kind and i've set up an appointment for next week.
I was just wondering if someone with experience in this type of situation could let me know how exactly this would go and how much it would differ from a normal escort service? Judging by the reviews it seems like she has a massage table out and that she gives a body rub first before heading into anything else but do these type of ladies usually offer full service? BJ's?
Thanks for any information on this from hobbyists with experience.
As a general rule. This is a massage. Level of nudity is dependent on the person providing the massage. Full service is usually not an option. If the provider has a web site, it should say what is not available.
From Tantra: hand jobs, blow jobs covered and bareback, CFS
topless, complete naked with DATY with HJ. Its really fun and I wish you to have a great time.....Websites don't always give you the whole picture. Light touch, sensual massage, check for rates, no blocked calls. All of these are potential signals. Call for rates if over 150 with extras....hope this helps....
back and legs for about 40 minute. Then you'll turn over and after a little more massage, she'll shake hands with Mr. Happy until you have a happy ending. Sometimes you'll get a BJ but usually it's a HJ. If she uses a massage table, almost no chance for FS.
as an aficionado of erotic massage myself, it is not unusual that if you see such a therapist for a period of time, and establish a certain rapport, you may find that some "off the menu" things get added.
It will most likely not include FS (although that has happened), but oral pleasures and various interesting things (COF perhaps) may be offered.
The bottom line is that there are no rules except for YMMV, and sometimes that in and of itself can be a very exciting thing.
You may also find that a simple hand job, done by a very expert massagist, can be more erotic than a PSE FS session.
I recall a time years ago that I went in for a theraputic massage only at an upscale spa. As the gal worked on my front, she bent over and gave me a very gentle kiss. I was surprised as hell and asked why. She said that she just felt like it. I was not even a hobbyist at this time. When I left, she handed me a card and on the back it had her home phone number. I called it when I got home and we dated for several wonderful months.
It's all in the mind, you know.
Massage services are the ultimate YMMV.
You should expect massage with HJ happy ending, however I've been surprised once with a very wet and well done BBBJ.
I never got FS on a first session, but after a few sessions, one Asian gal says to me "You are very handsome man", and when I flipped, she was in her b-day suit. FS was on the menu from then on. She has 5 TER reviews from 2007, and no FS is mentioned.
still new here and trying to learn the ropes, I have yet to hobby.
Sooo... just the 'erotic massage', regardless of how F/S or non F/S it is is legal so long as there is no $ = Sex discussion correct?
A vice cop will probably bust a gal the second she touches any part of his genitles.
Now whether or not that bust will stick in court is another matter and depends on how the law in that state is worded, etc.
But just the worry of a bust is enough to put a damper on things.
(still not a lawyer)
You can be busted if it's a set up, but that is a pretty remote possibility. The girls doing the massages are more likely to get busted if they offer anything more then a massage (yes, even a happy ending is illegal almost everywhere in this country, except NV & RI). If you happen to be in an MP that gets busted then you are just unlucky. But it doesn't happen that often. I went to one place that did nude erotic massages, but wouldn't touch Mr. Happy. They encouraged you to take matters into hand. I don't know if that circumvented the law, but it was less than satisfying.
That is why if you go to a AMP they will ask you if you have been there before, who you have seen, and on the rare occasion they will check your ID. They are afraid you might be LE. If you are seeing a well reviewed FBSM provider not affiliated with any MP , the risk is extremely low.
I have had FBSM all over the country, and in Canada, at AMPs, AAMPs, & private spaces & offices, and never had any problems. The massage, and what is offered beyond that, vary greatly. Sometimes it is noted quite clearly what is offered in the ad, or on the website, and sometimes it isn't (particular in MP's, where each women might have different options available, from HJs all the way to FS, depending on her level of comfort).
And as the previous poster noted, sometimes you can go to a regular massage therapist and have a happy ending. It has happened to me. But even if you don't, which is far more likely, you should get a good massage, and that is something I value too.
Thanks for the replys guys.
I live in cincy, a pretty conservative town with little to offer in this vein of entertainment. lets say I pick a CL add and setup a massage and never ask for or agree to more than that, but somehow I was unlucky and chose a setup girl/add. What would you predict the outcome as? would I get a massage from a cop LOL or arrested on contact?
You can't get arrested for just a massage, unless the cop is out to get you and makes up a big lie - highly unlikely.
But forget about CL; go to the reviews section, go to massage reviews, then scroll to Cinncinati and check out the reviews. I just looked, and there were 9 women reviewed offering massages in the first couple of pages, which means those reviews are fairly recent. This is what this site is all about!
Now there is always a very, very slight chance that LE has gotten to the provider, and forced her to set up appointments for the sake of busting her potential clients. So you can do a "cop check" when you meet, to put your mind at ease, before you discuss anything.
So ask her to remove her clothes, and you do the same. It isn't illegal to be nude (unless you are in public), but most LE won't do that. Of course, some providers may not want to either. Then trust your instincts - if the provider pushes you to talk about what sexual acts you want for money upfront, it could be a sting.
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