Just click on the yellow envelop. However,  providers can be slow to respond to a ter pm,
and some providers may not be vip so they will not be able to read the pm. There is no way to tell a providers status.  Many well reviewed providers have an email address listed in their ads or on their web site. I prefer first contact by email, I find the reply to an email to be much quicker than the reply to a pm. I also send pm's for first contact, but if you think it will bypass the screening process, just because you have a TER handle and can pm an escort, you're wrong. Even if you've written reviews and have white list refs, some ladies will want to speak to a reference.

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If they don't have a provider account, then they will not be able to access TER mail. Even if she does have a provider account, it's easier for her to be contacted via the info on her profile. When a PM is sent, TER will just e-mail her a notification that she has a message waiting. She will not be able to read or respond until she logs into the site.

just register then never log in again..just to make sure someone else won't register that username and screw with their rep