Being a relative newbie to the hobby, I wanted to check with other hobbyists on their experiences and found the results quite interesting.

I asked quite a few of other hobbyists that had several reviews and  ALL responded that they have never had an issue in being with a provider but a few did say that the only time they ever ran into a problem was with civvie girls!!!!

All said they always were covered for MISH, etc., but did participate in bbbj and daty.

So, does it make sense to say that you are safer to be with a provider than a civvie girl?



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The more partners you have, the higher your risk is for pregnancy and STDs regardless of how much you try and protect yourself. I don't know where guys are finding these prudish civie women, because I started sucking it for free at 13! By 18, I had done my first threesome, anal, and been with two guys...not DP of course, but you see my point. Maybe it's a southern thing, but most women I know from La. were pregnant by freaking 16 and had 2 kids before they even finished high school. I was 26 ha ha. I guess we are just bored here.

In California it is very similar, especially in Urban areas. My mom had me at 14.
However, I personally would not have been mature enough to emotionally handle sex at 13.....
I had definitely done a threesome, anal, and and two guys by 18 though.
I think it's because in some urban and rural areas, the incidence of young sex is higher. Something to do with culture, poverty, (ethnicity plays a big role), and some other stuff. Anthropology 101 is failing me now.

On topic: I don't get this survey.

Whether the correct word was survey or discussion with other hobbyists...pick the word you like better.

I was actually in a round about way giving kudos to the providers that do things correctly.  It was interesting to me to learn that some of these hobbyists had been in the hobby for over 20 years and the only time they ran into an problem was with a civvie...NOT a provider!!!!

To say providers are safer than civvie girls or vice versa is just ludicrous.  I don't know what providers you see, or what civvie girls you see.

If it's THEIR reality...it must be everyone's  

See...told you it was easy  LOL