Does anyone out there have an opinion on whether incall or outcall is better for a relative newbie? At first blush it seems that outcall would be better, as there is not the stress of finding a new place,of being on someone else's turf, etc. This is more true due to the fact that my next planned encounter will be in Vegas, when I am travelling. There seems to be a number of providers who only do incall. It also seems that a lot of hobbyists like incall as well. Is there something I'm missing? Is one significantly better than the other? Any other thoughts on the issue? Thanks.
Many hobbyists do not want to deal with the hassle of getting a room unless they're traveling for business. Some escorts might prefer incalls just because of the practical aspect of it. Most offer both however they might charge a little bit more for outcalls due to logistics.
Enjoy Vegas!
Outcall to 'neutral turf' is fine. The only real issue of having a girl come to your hotel room is that if she shows up and isn't 'as advertized' it could be harder to get her to leave. Whereas if you go to their place or a room rented solely for the encounter, you can simply walk away (if you DO ever walk away from a room you rented, don't forget to stop at the desk and check out and have the phone/room service etc turned off!). At best it could be embarrassing to have to have hotel security come get rid of her or show up on their own if she makes a scene.
My opinion: Only an idiot would have a provider outcall to their actual home, at least the first few times. If you are single, don't care what the neighbors think, and have seen the lady enough to be comfortable having her to your place - GREAT. But thanks to the stupid laws that make 'the hobby' an underground sport, you have little protection if a provider or her 'agent' causes problems around your home.
There are many great, wonderful and honest women in the hobby and using TER and reviews is a huge advantage over trying to pick someone off Craig's or calling an agency from the phone book.
MVR
Visiting a lady at her incall is my preferred method of hobbying while at home. Why incur the expense of getting a room myself? Since I won't bring them to my personal residence, it's easier to visit her. While away in places like Vegas, either in or outcall works...depends on what you arrange with the lady, whether you have transportation, etc.
There is no definitive answer to your question...just depends on what you & her are most comfortable with...
When I'm traveling, I prefer outcall; when I'm at home, I prefer incall. For numerous reasons, it's a bad idea to have a provider come to my place.
I rarely travel, married and don't need a paper trail. I got a room once and somehow the motel sent the wife an email survey asking how my stay was...very close call..whew!!!!
So from then on even if she doesn't offer incall, I make her get a room and I reimburse her for the room. No paper trail and no problem. Plus I usually leave prior to her and since the room is in her name I don't have to worry she might charge any extra's to the room.
I like incall ( where you come to me) live in a beautiful area it's safe and very discrete. I never get a hotel room because it's not worth money except if I travel to Phoenix
If you find a girl your interested in and she only does incall just make sure you check the reviews and do your homework
Good luck
Jay
I prefer outcall to my hotel room when traveling on business. I can prepare the room with soft music, candles, and beverages of the lady's choice. Also, no hassle in finding my way to her incall location in a strange city.
Sometimes incall is more effective, especially if I am traveling with a co-worker and I have a car. Kind of difficult to explain to a co-worker about the beautiful woman he/she saw coming out of my room late at night.
I can only do incall, which I personally prefer anyway. Not a SO problem, but a roomie/landlors situation, just for clarification. Roomie does not want the girls in the house. To stay where I am, I have to respect that.
Anyway, I would rather she be comfortable in her surroundings, and think that is more likely in an incall situation. Have done a few outcalls to my motel room, but that was when I was out of town. Even so, I prefer incall visits.
It all depends on what you feel most comfortable with.
Swim
I don't think newbie status has much to do with it. I do out calls most of the time especially when I travel on business. I do in call if I am hobbying near home. I don't have a lot of experience in Vegas but you definitely need to be wary of any out calls that you arrange as up sell is a huge problem out there. Stick with well reviewed ladies regardless and it really shouldn't matter which option you choose.
As long as you are seeing a well reviewed professional lady, either will be just fine, and incal/outcal is just a personal preference. I prefer outcal, but have seen many ladies incal over the years without any problems.
Enjoy Vegas, and remember, what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.
While incall isn't unheard of, it definitely isn't the norm there. A huge percentage of the business there is travelers (who already have rooms) and the ladies are generally pretty used to coming to the hotels.
Personally I am almost exclusively an outcall kinda guy. Once they have my knees turned to jelly all I have to worry about is walking them to valet instead of making my way across town.
It certainly IS! Living here is great at times, other times I hate it.
But there is no 'norm' to the ladies here. There are countless providers who do either IN or OUT calls. Just be careful to check a lady's reviews and if you do go 'incall' pay attention to where you are going and if it starts looking untoward, just keep on driving.
I've only done that once here, but I wouldn't hesitate to take a pass if I saw things outside her place that that had a bad case of 'just doesn't look right.'
MVR
As the previous posts mentioned, LV can be overwhelming for a newbie. Here is a link to a good indie web site. Make sure to do your research/homework before your trip. Also have a backup lady just in case. Good luck
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