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Doubles Newbie...any advice?
SplleChek 2107 reads
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Been in the hobby for a year or so and I've set up a double with my two ATFs.  Neither of them have seen each other before, but they both agreed to see me together (lucky me).  They have both done doubles with others, but I'm the doubles virgin and I'm wondering if there are some basic etiquette I should be aware of.  I know their individual boundaries, but I'm not sure how far those boundaries extend to a doubles session.

I tried to search for this in the Newbie board and didn't find much help.  If anyone has a link they can post I'd appreciate it.  Initially I have a few questions:

1. How much discussion in advance is necessary and is it welcome? I'm guessing if they are comfortable discussing individual encounters in advance that a doubles discussion with both parties cc'd wouldn't be unreasonable.
2. Any thoughts on female condoms? Are they beneficial for duos so that you don't need to keep changing covers or are they more of a hindrance?
3. What is a reasonable time frame?  I've got 4 hours booked (after dinner) right now.
4.  Any other doubles etiquette tips would be appreciated.

Yeah I know it's under an alias, but a quick scan of my reviews would make it obvious who I'm talking about.  Thanks for any advice.

Since both have done doubles, let them show you the ropes. Of course chime in when you feel like it
FCs are good idea for doubles, however, if the ladies are not familiar with them, installation the first time can be tricky. If you don't use FCs make sure to have plenty of condoms, especially if the girls bring toys.  Are you a voyeur? It's fun to watch the ladies play with each other.  Four hours? wow I wish I had your coin. For me, I'd cut to the chase and just do an hour or 2 hour, but, that's me.  Enjoy!

Posted By: SplleChek
Been in the hobby for a year or so and I've set up a double with my two ATFs.  Neither of them have seen each other before, but they both agreed to see me together (lucky me).  They have both done doubles with others, but I'm the doubles virgin and I'm wondering if there are some basic etiquette I should be aware of.  I know their individual boundaries, but I'm not sure how far those boundaries extend to a doubles session.

I tried to search for this in the Newbie board and didn't find much help.  If anyone has a link they can post I'd appreciate it.  Initially I have a few questions:

1. How much discussion in advance is necessary and is it welcome? I'm guessing if they are comfortable discussing individual encounters in advance that a doubles discussion with both parties cc'd wouldn't be unreasonable.
2. Any thoughts on female condoms? Are they beneficial for duos so that you don't need to keep changing covers or are they more of a hindrance?
3. What is a reasonable time frame?  I've got 4 hours booked (after dinner) right now.
4.  Any other doubles etiquette tips would be appreciated.

Yeah I know it's under an alias, but a quick scan of my reviews would make it obvious who I'm talking about.  Thanks for any advice.

Bring PLENTY of condoms.  When I do doubles with my bf  we can go through at least a dozen.  It seems half the fun for the guy is switching between us.

Especially for your first time with this.  And that you haven't had the two gals together.

What is important to you should be discussed BEFORE you play with them.  The reason is that many of the gals will do doubles, but they are NOT into each other.  But for the $$$$ will give you the illusion that they are DATY (and those that just aren't into it have "ways" to make it look real, but it is not!).  So I would certainly express my interests and desires to both ladies, and watch (carefully) how each responds.

OTOH, if they really are into each other, how will you be a participant in this game?  Perhaps you will be a voyeur, or a very active player.  Just let them know what YOU want, and remember this is all about YOU!

As far as how much time is good for this event, I would think that a two hour play window will be quite sufficient.  If they want to go to dinner...make sure it is OTC!  Otherwise, use those $$$ for another playtime vs dinner.  At least that is how I would approach it!

And if they are familiar with FC...absolutely the way to go :)

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