I am looking at a couple of providers but am just curious about a couple of things so hopefully someone can help. First, one of the ladies I'd like to see has a ton of reviews which is awesome, but there are so many more reviews than what a lot of other providers have that will be in the area. Is this any concern? Also I know there is increased risk for stings when it's a really busy time but at what point would you say it's safe to resume? Like a day after the event has finished, a week or more ( I know there's always a risk and it is near impossible to say but just from your experience what seems to be the safest bet)?
1) The number of reviews a girl has should not be a concern, especially if she's been around for a number of years. It's the content of the reviews that counts.
2) If you do your homework right there's no particular reason to worry about stings. One way to allay your fears is to ask about members' experience with a particular girl on her local board. Or PM some of her recent reviewers.
Good luck.