If I wanted to go no further than DFK on my first time with a provider should I still be looking for providers who offer mostly just GFE?

your 1st newbie question.

I get it that you want to learn the process, not rush to a conclusion (let alone try to squeeze multiple shots on goal into a single meeting.)  

GFE...  is a general term...  often abused for advertizing purposes.  To ME (and not all agree) there are no set of rules as to what is included but rather a general feeling as I exit that this is what I'd like my real GF to be.  

I do not think you should restrict yourself nor tell her (after you meet, since it's verboten to discuss in advance) that you only want a make out session.  I think you should tell your chosen date, that this is "your first time", or you've "never had a GF"...  and you don't want to rush...  Let nature take it's course.  I'd suggest a meeting of at least an hour, maybe 1.5.  

I'd also suggest you go with a sexy but mature provider (late 20's to 30s +/-) willing to spend the time with you.  

Good Luck
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A lot of quality providers will go with the flow and only go as far or as fast as you want but there are others who are either really into the sex and aren't into the "GFE" thing or are quite mercenary and so you probably wouldn't have a fun time as a result because they aren't into what you're wanting.

Getting a VIP membership and actually reading the reviews will help you pick one that seems compatible and potentially save you a lot of headache and money.

But try not to go in with a lot of preset restrictions or expectations since this will be new to you - this is supposed to be about fun and playtime! Letting it hang loose may result in some very nice surprises (funny choice of words I must admit lol)!

I've also thought about going to one of the brothels in nearby Nevada! Any thoughts or opinions on them?

The plus of Nevada Brothels, is it is legal and so you may openly discuss what you want. But based on your original posts. I have never received any kind of kissing in any brothel. Also in the ones I have been to  you pay for what kind of sex you want and the house listens in on the negotiations to make sure they get their cut.

If your truly looking to learn slowly I would advise you to find a local well reviewed independent in the mid 30's, who from her reviews enjoys kissing and talking. Look at the details and pay attention to how fast the action starts (the ladies who take time to get to know you is what you want) and what happens between pops. When you find one who looks like she usually performs like a girl friend in your mind then find out what you need to do to see her. If she has a web site listed read it fully. If her site contact page requires referrals email her and find if she has other means of verifying you. Also have at least a potential day and time ready to include in the email. You will be asking her to do a lot of checking  and she needs to know you are serious about seeing her.