So I'm really new to this. I've invested in VIP.. best idea ever. I've also been browsing these forums learning more and more about this hobby.

I'm researching for my first experience with a provider right now going through reviews and such... but I have a question. Does it matter to the providers that I am 20yrs old? I'd have to imagine that they see older ppl. Would it shock them to see a youngin' walk through the door? Should I say it upfront??

hey brother as long as your over 18 I'm sure theprovider doesn't care.

Search the boards you'll find this discussion all over the place.  I've added a link to one.

A lot of ladies only see gents over 35 or 40.  A lot of guys your age do not know how to treat a lady right and don't have the "background" in how this hobby works.  Be up-front with the lady you are trying to see about your age.  Otherwise, she may walk out on you and black-ball you through the provider network.

I can't believe I'm recommending this, but this dude should try and get his VIP money back!  At 20, he's gonna have a very hard time getting seen!  If he tries to hide his age, it'll make things worse.  At that age, he should be boning lots of college chicks anyway!

process.  I would strongly recommend that you check the provider's site and see if they have any minimum age restrictions first before contacting a provider.  That said, unless they ask for your age and have a restriction.. you should be set to go!

SINfully sinthia

with A 10-ft pole.

Seriously, 20 is way too young to be doing this, in my opinion.

I agree with Tabu:

20 is way too young to be a hobbyist. A LOT of providers would turn you down, just because of your age.

This is the reason why I see gents over the age of 30. They have the maturity and experience, whereas younger folk dont (in my opinion).

Well ... The way I look at it is I know how to treat a lady. Maybe its from how I was raised but I consider myself a very mature YOUNG adult.

I also turn 21 in about 3 weeks if that makes any difference lol. As for experience, I've been with only two girls...intimately. But deep down inside I know what I'm doing.

I have a possible encounter with a provider this tues. She is aware of my age, but the details haven't been ironed out yet. We'll see. I honestly dont see why people would turn down stuff.

which was a HUGE disappointment, but I guess you can't win um all. I say just keep trying, eventually someone will give you a shot.

but lets face it... there are alot of younger 20 something providers who do.. even though it does surprise me that many have age minimums for clients.. around 30.

I understand where you are coming from... and hell I cannot blame you. If it counts for anything I turn 21 in 3 weeks.

I have a possible appt with a provider in the next few days. she is aware of my age and appears to be fine with it. I consider myself a very mature young adult though. Treating a lady respectfully is in my attitude and nature. I guess the reason I'd want to do this is just to have fun.. experience it for once. See what it is like. I may not have the experience of a 30+yr old but I do have the stamina of a 20 yr old.

Was just curious if my age will cause any actual PROBLEMS. Thanks

Im 22 and started last year. Have been with two ladies and age didnt matter to them. We come to this because we cant get it any other way really, as sad as that sounds.

Of course you see yourself as mature, and knowing how to treat a lady.  Do you really think anyone says that they're an immature asshole that treats women like shit?  I'm not accusing, but most guys (gals too, for that matter) don't spend a lot of time on self assessment.  The ladies that stay away from the younger guys do it for a reason.  I know of a woman that has teenage sons, and doesn't want to risk one of their friends showing up with cash in hand.  That's just one of many reasons.

When you say that you don't understand "why people would turn down stuff", you show a level of inexperience.  These ladies have the opportunity to earn enough money that they don't HAVE TO see anyone that they don't want to, and value safety and pleasure above more cash.

Good luck with your upcoming encounter.  Hopefully, you're correct about the maturity thing, and it all goes well.  The rest usually comes with seat time.

I love people watching, and have seen all sorts of unconventional pairings.  There's nothing wrong with paying for some luvin, but it shouldn't be used as a replacement for the "real world"

Acutally, in all honesty, if i didnt know what i was doing with women i'd say so. im honest with myself. I've been with 5-6 girls.. total of 2 went "there" with me. its been my experience when researching for a provider unless they specify age restrictions in their ads they are 100% fine with it.

little phil - i dont think i could accommodate the porn'ish aspects of women but i know what i'm doing when it comes to the main course. and i say that with all confidence. and even if im not and i walk in there with confidence its gunna be better for the both of us. if i walk in there thinking i have no clue wtf im doing then.. eh everything is gunna suck.

thanks for the advice tho, little phil. lol.

I am 25, but most people say I look about 21. Never had a problem.

Dude....you showed your immaturity with this post.  "Deep down inside I know what I'm doing."?!?!?  What kind of young punk kid dribble is that?  Knowing how to treat a lady is one thing, knowing how to treat her in AND out of bed is quite another.  Your comment about stamina shows a lack of maturity also cause brother, I can tell you, I'm better now in my mid 40's then I ever was in my 20's....

I have to agree with most of the others, you really shouldn't need this type of service being 20.  This should be, in my opinion, an older fellows hobby.

Or that I've made too many friends with escorts that tell stories of guys that disgust them with their inability to make her feel special too.  I don't ever let it get to names, nor do I think they'd give 'em up if I asked.

I'm glad you're confident, and truly wish you the best.  It's just that 2 is a small experience base (I more than doubled that last week alone...hey it was a good week, lol).  We all gotta start somewhere.

I also agree that a lady should advertise her restrictions, and if age isn't on the list, you should go for it.

Isn't this a bit of a hypocritical or even sexist response? Many providers fall in the 19 to 24 range and are well able to handle themselves in intimate and social settings. In my 40's myself, so I can appreciate the risks associated with a certain lack of self-control in SOME of the younger bucks but to exclude them as a class really doesn't seem right. Maybe more thorough screening is helpful? I don't have an easy answer but the response just didn't sit well with me.

"I may not have the experience of a 30+yr old but I do have the stamina of a 20 yr old."

"I honestly dont see why people would turn down stuff."

WTF?

I hope you reconsider your decision to be in the hobby.

I agree, your comments were very immature and sounded more like oxymorons.