It seems to me that providers need to work on the information super highway a little.
   Why don't providers review clients on a site? That way they could know you are ok and don't need all this information, they ask for.
   If this were the case I wouldn't have a problem seeing providers and I would be able to set an appointment without giving all the  information I really don't want to give.
   They could read my reviews and say what they want. That would be the referal/s I need. Does a site exsist for this?
   I sure wouldn't mind reviews on me. I Just would like to maintain the descretion I seem to have not been able to maintain moving forward.

   I am a 20 year guy so hardly new but really rattled by all these requirements everyone seems to have these days. I must be old fashioned but this is begining to be more work than it ever has been before. It is getting worse by the day too.

  I'm on time, never have backed out of an appointment, Clean, Well mannered, Always respectful,Never asked for discounts, never asked if a lady would see me for less, always said Thanks I really needed that, I could go on and on.

     I am starting to think it's just is to much for me anymore..Are we taking the fun out of this?It is obvious I need to get with the program!!!!

A ladies review of her clients could read like a horror novel.  The facts are that if you're 20, most of the rest of us are 2-3x your age, a bit pudgy and hair is but a memory.  sure, they'll tell you he was sweet, clean and interesting, but they'll be thinking about his pencil dick, that he can't keep it up, or that his weight made certain positions impossible.  For my money, i want to believe i'm the exception to that rule, and don't need to find out by reading a review.

TER does offer the whitelist, which is the green light that you're an ok guy, without the scary details.

It just has strict requirements to be a part of the community. Trust me there are at least 4 National sites that providers utilize to share information (*There is little that happens within the Providing world that an established provider isn’t made aware of*)

The really professional ladies of the hobby just take their issues and grievances to one of these sites where it is safely out of he prying eyes of those innocent gentlemen who would rather not be exposed to that side of the business (*you know, what most consider to be “drama”*)  

Great suggestion, you should be glad to know it has been thought of....…
Kisses ~Tori  

The ladies have a right to use whatever screening procedures that think are necessary to feel safe.  Too many wackos out there these days.

Guys, only give the information you are comfortable in giving or use Date-Check or RS.  If it is not satisfactory to your lady of choice, move on to another lady.  There are plenty of wonderful ladies out there to meet.

I've had the oppotunity to listen to providers talk amoungst themselves.  Poor behavior by a client is noticed, noted, reported and shared (they back-channel info AT LEAST as much as experienced hobbyists do).

No matter how you reveal your details, or how she screens, if you hobby alot, you will be known and  quickly develop a reputation.  It's best to keep it clean.

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Follow the advise above, it comes from both provider who is familiar with the "system" and clients who have been thru your very position.
There are several sites for provider reviews on clients... just as there are several sites for clients only who do reviews.
Sign up for Date Check, 411, Roomservice, whatever and that will simplify life for you and the ladies you would prefer to see.
Trust the advise above - your alternative is to go back to the days when the Yellow Pages were used and I can easily say, things are MUCH easier now as well as safer.
I would say you just need to UNDERSTAND the program, not so much get with it.
Good luck to you.

I get the feeling that you will never get a speeeding ticket on the information super highway

Thank You

service providers however clients can not! You never see a grocery store reviewing its customers! It will cause drama and lawsuits! trust me!