This is the last helpful info I will give to newbies.  Included is my latest response to the moderator of my regional board (in case it does not get posted over there).  Follow the links below to see how this started!

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=54537&boardID=18&page=

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=54639&boardID=18&page=1

once again, I HAVE TO PAY TO GIVE PLEASURE!  I am NOT a provider!  All I did was to link to a website used in a review that was already posted here.  How can MY website not be approved if I don't even have one? CHECK THE RECORDS!  I have NEVER promoted ANYONE on this site.
After reading the review (that TER approved) I thought it was funny that she (someone who I never even knew was born) offered a 15 minute session.  Is it the responsibility of hobbyist to verify that a website has been approved, or is it the responsibility of TER?  Why was it allowed to be included in her review in the first place?  If the review had a different link (TER approved), I would have used that one!  I can't believe that ONE mistake has caused me to get moderated.  This SUCKS!!!  If I have to wait 24 hours every time a post something, then it looks like I'll just become a lurker!  These boards are successful because of user participation, so go ahead and limit those who participate!

kc