Dear All.. what a great site!! If you respond to my question.. thank you for your time!!

so help me out. I've searched for this on both the general discussion and the newb section and i cant find the answers. could you seasoned hobbyist/providers shed some light?

1. after the deed is done, can one ask the provider: do you know anyone else I can get in touch with? is it okay to ask this?
2. Is it okay to ask a provider to set up, with her gf and trusted client a foursome?

yours, seriously,

try me

have a conversation with the provider about her services. You will enjoy it and it can be very informative.

The tabu of conversation has changed.

As long as any sex act isn't questioned your free to open the conversation.

I love having chit chat after the fact and would be open and willing to this arrangement. But would need to be very comfortable with you since you are asking me to put two of my friends in the limelight.

It is always easy to get another provider to join in but another hobbiest is something else.

Hope your fantasy is comming soon

Kisses Haley

and correct me if I'm wrong, ladies, will be pretty open as to what their limitations are after they feel they know you well enough. If you tactfully let a lady know that you have a particular fantasy, she will certainly let you know if she is willing to fulfill it.

got it.

executive summary: don't discuss what you plan to do with the friend, raise the question, if provider does not take conversation forward, end it, otherwise, discuss it and watch the drama unfold.