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clarence37 37 Reviews 663 reads
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Don't assume that you have a date, because right now, you don't. You need to write (call) her again to confirm. If you are afraid she will think you are a pest, keep it light, just say "hey, just checking in to confirm" or something like that.

Who told you that you can't talk about money? Of course you can. "Can you please tell me what is the rate for X hours of your time?" What you CAN'T do is say "how much for a blowjob?" It's a subtle difference, but do you see what I mean? :-)

It's also correct that it's not wise to book a long date for a first meeting, 1 or 2 hours is plenty to find out if you have chemistry; what if you book 4 hours and find out there's no chemistry?

I'm hoping against hope that this is a well-reviewed provider. If she is not, then all of my advice goes out the window.

tucsonkid81964 reads

I have been in contact with a provider but from her response I am not certain she will meet me.  She responded that she would love to see me and asked where I was staying. The day we are to meet is coming soon. The reason I am confused is because her website does not list a rate for the number of hours I want to spend with her. I asked what her rate would be for the time I requested but she has not responded. Was it wrong to ask for the rate if the time together is not listed on the providers website? Since this will be my first time I am not sure what to do. If I don't know the rate I will have no idea what to bring. I know money should not be discussed when together but how will I know her rate if I don't ask? Finally, if I am not told the rate ahead of time should I still meet with her? Sorry if this is a no brainer, but I am a newbie and need some direction. Thanks for your responses in advance.

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Businesses713 reads

Most people recommend two hours for someone's first hobby experience.

She may not be taking you seriously since you're requesting a lot of hours and it's your first experience.
Most people, both providers and hobbyists included, will tell you to not spend that much time with a provider you have not seen before.  

Don't meet her until she gets back to you.
I don't know how many hours you requested, but just go for 2-3 hours.
If she only has one rate listed, a one hour rate, just multiply it by however many hours you want.
Some providers provide generous multi-hour discounts, but they will say so on their site.

Posted By: tucsonkid8
I have been in contact with a provider but from her response I am not certain she will meet me.  She responded that she would love to see me and asked where I was staying. The day we are to meet is coming soon. The reason I am confused is because her website does not list a rate for the number of hours I want to spend with her. I asked what her rate would be for the time I requested but she has not responded. Was it wrong to ask for the rate if the time together is not listed on the providers website? Since this will be my first time I am not sure what to do. If I don't know the rate I will have no idea what to bring. I know money should not be discussed when together but how will I know her rate if I don't ask? Finally, if I am not told the rate ahead of time should I still meet with her? Sorry if this is a no brainer, but I am a newbie and need some direction. Thanks for your responses in advance.

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RokkKrinn634 reads

...even when I first started out hobbying.

Two hours has always seemed to me to be short a time.  I like spending a little time chatting and getting acquainted (or catching up with a repeat friend) have an unrushed time, and then some time after for a massage (or maybe even a second round).

But that's just me, YMMV.

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clarence37664 reads

Don't assume that you have a date, because right now, you don't. You need to write (call) her again to confirm. If you are afraid she will think you are a pest, keep it light, just say "hey, just checking in to confirm" or something like that.

Who told you that you can't talk about money? Of course you can. "Can you please tell me what is the rate for X hours of your time?" What you CAN'T do is say "how much for a blowjob?" It's a subtle difference, but do you see what I mean? :-)

It's also correct that it's not wise to book a long date for a first meeting, 1 or 2 hours is plenty to find out if you have chemistry; what if you book 4 hours and find out there's no chemistry?

I'm hoping against hope that this is a well-reviewed provider. If she is not, then all of my advice goes out the window.

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QueenBia640 reads

I never mind sharing my donations if it is not listed on my site & if she has no responded, then why waste your time?

It takes less, than a minute to return an email inquiry.

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London Rayne730 reads

Asking "where can I find your accurate donation for x hours" is perfectly acceptable especially when she does not have the common sense to list the rate, thus making you not have to ask.

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tucsonkid8388 reads

Businesses and Clarence37, thanks for the advice. I will definitely book only 1 or 2 hours the first time I see a provider. Clarence, I see your point, it definitely would be strange if there were no chemistry. Also, thanks for clearing up the discussion about money and she is definitely a well reviewed provider. (I definitely wanted to do my homework there). Patricia and London, Thanks for giving me the providers viewpoint. I did only ask for the rate for a specified time and nothing else. Now I know I didn't do something wrong. Thanks again for the advice everyone!

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