The question, is it safe to assume that if a provider isn't putting ads on Backpage, Eros, etc regularly you shouldn't give them a call?

Or do you? Sometimes with the TER search you find some chicks who seem great, but for all I know they retired in 2010.

Plus of course, since girls often move around, a couple times I did call to find they were no longer in town, even with pretty recent or current ads.

So, long story short, is it rude to call a provider who doesn't have a recent ad? Anyone ever try it, how'd it work out?

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I would have no problem calling a lady with recent reviews and older ads. Well reviewed ladies may be doing enough regulars repeat business to stop posting ads for a while. Also since I have joined p411 I know of at least two ladies who only get new clients that way and no longer post ads in the places you described. So there could be several reasons for no recent ads. Now if you can find only old reviews and old ads then I would probably try an email first before a phone call just in case they have moved on.

it's a site like myproviderguide.com that lifts content without her participation.

If a provider wanted calls to stop, she could have her old ads on Backpage or Eros pulled. Which is not to say that they always do, or that otherwise you can expect to reach her, just that it isn't a breach of etiquette to try.

My reviews are anything but recent, and I post ads sporadically. Doesn't mean I'm not active -- it just means I don't get a lot of reviews and haven't felt like posting an ad.

I rarely advertise. it keeps me UTR. I always welcome my regs to call me up.