Your screen name would give one the impression you are in the DFW area. I'm not sure what the environment is in Dallas right now as that isn't a City I travel to. But, I am sure they are much more lenient than Atlanta or a few other Cities at this particular time. The LE threat of any City usually has a direct reflection on the providers in the area practicing various degrees of screening.

Please don't misunderstand my statement as many established providers NEVER lower their demands for security. Plus, most established providers can afford to be more particular with their screening. Although it isn't usually public information as to EXACTLY what a provider requires to pass her screening, some providers will give you a good idea through private correspondence,once they are comfortable that you aren't LE. (*Making public posts about specific business practices or mannerisms of behavior jeopardizes everyone and has never been a good practice*)

As mentioned above and in line with my longstanding recommendation.... "Know your provider (*and her reputation*)..... and then build a level of comfort acceptable to both of you that gives you the confidence to set up a meeting.

If you are new to the hobby I'd suggest you use the "Search" tab on the upper right hand side at the top of this forum and spend a little time reading past posts and topics with suggestions to finding a provider for your first encounter. This could also give you suggestions for both your behaviors and expectations of the provider's mannerisms.

Many times a provider just building her client base will overlook your lack of references and experience in the hobby. At times, even some established providers might be in a position to accept clients that they normally wouldn't....depending on the market in your specific area. (*It's all part of that supply & demand thing *LOL*)  Providers who have been established for a longer period of time,make compensations for such fluctuations in the market and thus aren't forced to comprise their screening or safety.

If your particular area has a high LE threat then there is an alternative plan for gaining references, should you travel on business.... When traveling simply use an agency in a City that you visit that has an established reputation within the community. This will then afford you the reference to set up a meeting with a provider in your City that requires one.

Best wishes in finding what you are seeking....    kisses ~Tori

It make perfect sense. Thanks for these other services you listed.

Ive signed up with Date-Check and Preferred411 and they were very easy to deal with, very professional and helpful.  I still have not set up my first appointment..but soon.