The clean-up. After the pop in the condom, if it happens that way, go get a warm wet washcloth, remove the condom, and clean him up. This is the best thing you can do for the guy after he has blown his load.
If he pops on your body, let him enjoy it and then clean him up, as well as yourself.
After the pop, lots of guys, myself included, love some post clean-up snuggling and just chatting. Doesn't have to be long, but I love it. This depends on how long he has been there, and if you are a real clock-watcher.
Lastly, guys love it if you are not a real clock-watcher that hops up when the clock strikes 12. If you have time, allow him a bit of snuggle time. If not, well then use your feminine wiles to convince him to come back verbally.
I am a fairly new provider and have a question for you guys. Is there something you would like to have or see providers do on your dates? Maybe something that only a few gals did that you would like to see more of? What can I do to be a better provider for you?
The clean-up. After the pop in the condom, if it happens that way, go get a warm wet washcloth, remove the condom, and clean him up. This is the best thing you can do for the guy after he has blown his load.
If he pops on your body, let him enjoy it and then clean him up, as well as yourself.
After the pop, lots of guys, myself included, love some post clean-up snuggling and just chatting. Doesn't have to be long, but I love it. This depends on how long he has been there, and if you are a real clock-watcher.
Lastly, guys love it if you are not a real clock-watcher that hops up when the clock strikes 12. If you have time, allow him a bit of snuggle time. If not, well then use your feminine wiles to convince him to come back verbally.
Thanks I will start with a nice post clean-up. Never would have guessed that that is a nice touch. I am not a clock watcher and also enjoy the snuggle time. Glad to hear that it can also be a guy thing.
Some ladies are "clock watchers". The hour (or whatever) comes to an end and shebang - that 's it. But they don't take responsibility for *managing* that hour, so that everything flows smoothly and the action is "finished" a few minutes early, so that there is a relaxed and comfortable end to the session.
Being a time manager in any context is a skill. Making this transparent to your customer makes you a true courtesan in the highest sense of the word.
Suggestions -
use a music track or something unobtrusive to time the sessions
have a basic script in mind for each appointment length, while allowing adaptability and flexibility
make sure that at the 45-50 minute point the gent is on his way to "finishing" if he has not already
relax and cuddle with him for a few mintues afterward. Its the quality of "after sex" time that makes the longest lasing impression
never put yourself in a position to have to rush the gent.
end the session with a subtle but pleasant indication ie "I've had so much fun with you today. Thank you for seeing me. Do you want to shower?" instead of "times up sweetie" lol
to be a very caring lady who is really into pleasing her date. I too like the warm washcloth clean-up as opposed to either nothing or using sani wipes. Snuggling is always very welcomed.
Now, if you would only come and visit Florida once in a while I could have the distinct honor of spending time with you.
I really do need the snuggle time... could be only 2-3 minutes but very important.
I know about the chair for clothing... A recent date with a super lady... I noticed the chair when we entered the bedroom... and as she stripped me it was exactly in the right place! skb
Thank you for this question. I am glad to know that for the most part I am doing things the right way. The previous time management suggestions were great and I am going to get a chair righ away...smile.
The warm towel while he is basking in a cloud of bliss has gotten a great response.
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