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Ratintoi 1315 reads
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1 / 16
Lightweight, Quick-setup method to send providers deposits/cancel fees?

So, life happened and I now owe a provider a cancellation fee.  She doesn't have a method pre-setup.

Are there any quick-setup, lightweight methods to accomplish this, safely, anonymously and preferably electronically that are known good by the community?  

Assume the provider doesn't have a PO Box and for an additional curve ball prefers not to use banks.

Thanks!

impposter 49 Reviews 421 reads
posted
2 / 16
Pay Pal GC? Bitcoin.

Regular gift cards (amazon, iTunes, Omaha Steaks) that you buy with cash at the brick and mortar stores can be scammed.  See many recent discussions about "gift card scams".

You can also buy PP GC with cash but they can only be transferred to someone's PP account, so it's harder for a scammer to crack it and not leave a trail ... for now.

Buy PP GC anonymously with cash.  
Either give her the physical card (a problem in this case) or
Email her the card info so she can deposit the "cash" into her PP account.

And hope for the best.

Bitcoin is another option, if she uses bitcoin

mrfisher 111 Reviews 447 reads
posted
3 / 16
It's not electronic, but how about mailing a check to her?...

She'd would need a PO Box, or be cool with giving out her address.

You'd have to have total control over the checkbook too

702touch See my TER Reviews 351 reads
posted
4 / 16
wait...

she has a cancellation fee but no way for you to send it to her?...i would wait till she has a secure one...that is her responsibility not yours...my two cents

impposter 49 Reviews 432 reads
posted
5 / 16
Bank check or money order vs personal check; Western Union

I wouldn't use a personal check. Consider a bank check or money order.  

I wouldn't use Traveler's Checks, either.  They also have your name on them.

What about a Western Union money transfer kind of thing? Does it require a real name and ID to do that? Overseas, for sure, I would think. Domestic sending of small amounts? I don't know.  

But 702 has a good point: she has to come up with a reasonable way to make it work without you having to jump thru hoops.  

And kudos to you for paying the fee

mrfisher 111 Reviews 365 reads
posted
6 / 16
WU does require ID, etc. Plus, they suck donkey balls. eom


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Doc.Holliday 24 Reviews 510 reads
posted
7 / 16
Option of paying in cash at start of next session...

There are quite a few providers who will take the cancellation fee in cash at the start of the next session.  Don't know if it's an option with your provider or not, but something to think about.  Of course, that assumes that you actually want another session with her and that you could do it relatively soon, which may or may not be the case in your situation.

Bitcoin could be a good option, but I've yet to see a provider who took Bitcoin.  There are some blender/mixer services that can improve the anonymity factor, but those may be overkill for this situation.

Western Union generally requires name and some personal info.

Pre-paid credit card?  I've heard of those being used for anonymous transactions with some success, but don't have personal experience there.

impposter 49 Reviews 498 reads
posted
8 / 16
Prepaid CCs

Posted By: Doc.Holliday
Pre-paid credit card?  I've heard of those being used for anonymous transactions with some success, but don't have personal experience there.
I should have included the prepaid CCs along with the prepaid gift cards. Both GCs and CCs bought at the store with cash at checkout are susceptible to the same scams.
Related Link: Prepaid CC Scams

Smallfish 442 reads
posted
9 / 16
Do this. Do ONLY this.

Either, she is still willing to see you, and your willing to include her cancellation fee in your next visit.

Or she isn't willing to see you...in which case, why would give her any money at all???!!

(For providers about to flame me..I tip my regular girls an extra $100 on the next visit when I have to reschedule at the last minute for whatever reason

harborview 10 Reviews 367 reads
posted
10 / 16
It's up to her...

If it's substantial, you could buy her coffee & hand her an envolupe.   If you plan to reschedule, include it with her donation.  
Ask her how she wants to handle it...  if she really collects a fee, she must have a plan.

Ratintoi 363 reads
posted
11 / 16
Thanks all.... Looks like pay at next visit is probably wisest

Was just looking for other options as I dislike being in hock until the next meet and she implied she might take suggestions.  Plus it seemed an interesting "technical" question.  

Mailing anything without a PO Box is out - that would compromise her identity - and I don't really want to know.

Bitcoin would be awesome, but it fails the simplicity test (spectacularly I might add and I say that as a geek) and the convert to cash fees appear to be relatively exorbitant.

I gave some thought to Money Orders... but without a bank they can be hard to cash.

Additionally, without the lady be willing to accept it with something tied to her real identity (which is what I myself would want), there don't appear to be any decent, "fundamentally easy", online, electronic options.  Paypal, square/cash.me, simple, etc all appear to want an ID/SSN to get back to cash

TheEscortAsst 384 reads
posted
12 / 16
SquareCash

it's quick, shows up as a Visa deposit/purchase on your bank statement and they normally deposit the money into your bank instantly

Related Link: http://TheEscortAssistant.com

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 349 reads
posted
13 / 16
The best thing to do is ask her...

She may want the cancellation fee before she'll be comfortable booking you again.  

Steph xoxo

Ratintoi 415 reads
posted
14 / 16
Thanks... I did (early and often) and we're good. eom


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MissErinBlack See my TER Reviews 389 reads
posted
15 / 16
Squarecash changed their TOS and will shut down sex worker accounts.

I've had it happen. I do not recommend. Same for paypal.

Lord_of_Light 272 reads
posted
16 / 16
I have sent a few Amazon gift cards

for various reasons.   I go to the local drug store and will pay cash for an Amazon gift card and then email her the Serial # on the back.   It's simple up to about $500.   Beyond that you would need to split it in two I believe.   I've never had a complaint about paying this way.   You can also verify she received the funds by trying to add the card to your own Amazon  account  -- just give her plenty of time though because if she hasn't applied the funds yet they will be added to your account and she can't use the card (and you have to start over by purchasing a new card).     Generally I wait a month to be safe, figuring if she didn't do it by then, it's probably not happening

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