I keep seeing a provider that is pretty well reviewed on BP offering discounts way lower than anyone else... I mean I could take a date out and pay less for dinner... Is this real? I mean the girl is smoking hot, looks like a model, has decent reviews...I just dont know what to think. Any advice is appreciated.
Also, I hear about "upselling" what is that?
Upselling means the price they are advertising is not the price for everything.
So if a lady upsells she has one price that basically just gets her to show up at your door. After you pay that, she informs you if you want her to do more than just stand there and look good, you need to pay xyz depending on what you are wanting from her.
A smoking hot chick with really low rates is a red flag. If her reviews don't indicate she upsells and that she is the girl in the pics, you might want to post on your local board and see if anyone else knows anything about her.
Without being VIP you can't read the juicy details, which is critical in knowing what the providers menu offers. If she upsells it will mentioned in the review. Also try using google/images and/or tineye.com to verify the pictures. Lots of stolen pictures are used in escort advertising.
details and don't settle for just "decent". Don't you want an unforgetable experience?
you say she has decent reviews. To my thinking, those things are not the same. Besides, most of us would prefer better than 'decent' reviews. I'm talking about reviews on this site, not other sites. If you don't have VIP, get it and read the juicy details. . The general details of a review rarely tell you much beyond how the reviewer set up the date, and how he got her address or room number. Plus, you can't see the rating numbers or her rates w/o VIP.
How many reviews does she have? Are her reviews written by guys that have more than 1 or 2 reviews? Is she reviewed here or somewhere else? If the reviews are somewhere else, you might have to jump thru that site's hoops in order to read the entire review. These are some questions you should be answering.
Upselling is never good. Her low rates may just be there to get you in the door. Then she will tell you 'if you want this, it's gonna cost this much more', and so on it goes. Be wary of super low rates like that. It may well be just a classic case of TGTBT.
Swim
ok so, here is her link...
http://sandiego.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/50top-notch-beauty-with-specials-50fs-24/9484618
I have never been with a black girl before and always wanted to. I do not know how to read the reviews and understand what is really going on. This will be my first time and thus, I am plenty nervous. But in reality, I will never have the chance to be with a black girl unless I pay. I hope that does not sound racist in some way. Anyways any help and the help given already is appreciated. No I am not VIP since this was going to be a one and out but, who knows, the water might be nice...I might stay a while.
the reviews are worthless. How do you know they are even decent? You can't see the juicy details, her ratings, or how much she charges for her time. If you can afford to see an escort, then cough up the 30 bucks and buy a month's VIP membership. Once you begin to write reviews, you get 15 free VIP days for each one.
You say you are nervous, you should be. Without the full knowledge of what's in the reviews, I'd be nervous too. I looked at her ad, and there is no indication on it that she even has reviews. Even her ad that says she is well reviewed has no indication of where the reviews are. Girls that post this line are hoping you will take her at her word and not go looking for her reviews, which with no idea where to start, could take a while.
There is a thread on the Gen Discussion board that talks about this situation. It starts with "I don't get it" by freshlemon. It's about the 4th thread down on the first pge. Read it, it elaborates on what I just said above.
My advice, find another one, this one has too many unanswered questions.
Swim
http://sandiego.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/well-reviewed-ebony-hottie-with-5065120-21/8687032
50 - 65 and 120
Try looking up Chelle, she's got 17 reviews, the latest one being this month, the reviewers say she is easy to set up a session with.
She will probably give you a much better first time experience than the one you were looking at.
http://theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=155907
I found a profile under that name, similar phone, in that location. http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=126650
Has a web site. the picts in the ad you linked show in one linked ad.
However, the price on the Special is too low to be believeable. My guess it is for lesser time or lesser services. Upsell is "bad" but these Special deals abound. If you go into it expecting to pay a fair rate for the services you want, you still might come out OK.
Reviews state not full GFE. A review from 09 states "very safe" which is probably a hint that everything is covered CBJ, not BBBJ. (I'm not VIP right now so can't read the juicy details)
Gap in reviews from 2009 to 12. Specials may be because she's breaking back in. Still feel that stated rate is too low for all inclusive. The review link on her web site leads back to a TER Not found message, so likely had another profile.
You are new. You need to learn to use the search functions. Put in phone numbers, emails, names separately & see what comes up. You need VIP to complete the research...
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But that's just me, suspicious by nature, esp when it comes to the hobby.
Swim
After saying you were the host for a month, at least it looks like it now
You look good in red, Swim!
after I asked them again. Told them it might help newbies recognize me as host....
And thanks, but would rather be in pink, if you catch my drift. In fact, that's where I'm doing now.....LOL
Swim
I'm seeing prices in ads from 100 to 200/hr to 250/hr. The 100 is too low to be an all inclusive hr. I don't know this area but 200-250 should be about right for "all inclusive". Discussing what is included is a No No prior to the main event.
Up Selling is when a stated rate for "all inclusive"... after you make the donation... everything costs extra. That said, you would be a fool to expect 200 worth of service for half price. A provider I liked had a low rate... but a short time limit... when we reached the time, fortuinately she was willing to extend. When I was a total Newbie, I ran into the time limit & she was not willing to extend so I left disappointed.
With so many ads active... at least pick a fair bargain & see if she'll honor it. In my area, I expect to pay 200 roses...
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