I have had dinner dates both before and after and in the middle as described. You have seen her before so politely talk to her about it. My before, after and in the middle were all with the same lady each time was different depending on her schedule and my schedule. In the middle is my favorite as we are doing something fun while I recover for round two. Of course depending on where you are planning on eating the provider may feel that she wants to eat first because after you muss her all up it is harder for her to get ready for a fancy meal afterward. Most of my after dinner dates were not planned but OTC session is over I'm going to eat would you care to join me types. The main thing is the only one who can truly help you plan your time is the lady in question. Bounce your ideas off her and she will let you know what will or will not work for the date and time you are considering.

The lady that you are paying is the one you should be talking to about this.  Most gals have a pretty definite time line of what happens, when and how often...

Best to get on the same page with her to avoid a waste of your time and money.

last week. He thought play first then dinner. I suggested dinner first. My logic was we would be all sweaty and tired we would never make it to dinner. Lol after out meeting he agreed.
Ask her what she thinks....
Save room for dessert!
~Arianna

the way it WILL go.  You've already spent a few hours with her, so some of the unknowns are out of the way.  Do you want to make this a "major dinner event" meaning a two hour dinner and drinks or would you rather just grab a "burger and fries" and spend more time indoors.

There is no right or wrong way to have this type of date.  Your gal pal is expecting some food during the four hours, and you might want to suggest to her the type of attire you would like her to plan on wearing when you go out.  But all of that is up to you as to how you want the evening to go.

The gals are very flexible when it comes to the dinner date deals.  As far as when sex will be a part of the date is strictly up to you as well.  I have not yet told a gal what the itinerary will be prior to my arrival.  I like to play things loosely and see how the evening progresses.

Whichever way you want to go with this, just remember this is YOUR fantasy.  And she will, if she is good, will roll however you want her to.

Thanks for all the advice.  I will bring it up when I book it, and see where she takes it.