It's your $, the time is to be spent the way you want to, as long as you're a gentleman and respectful.
If you don't want to daty then don't. Most guys like to daty, not sure why, it's part of the foreplay, but I've had sessions with no daty. If you're a wam bam thank you mam type of guy, as you stated, I'd make sure that you read the juicy details of the lady you want to see. You may be interested in a PSE session not a GFE session.
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A question i have is about DATY. Almost every review i read either mentions DATY, something i dont want to do with anyone other than someone im in love with.Is DATY something as expected as showering and placing the envelope on the dresser or a unspoken courtesy? I understand already that you do what you want so i dont need any feedback on that, just curious as to why so many men are reporting this act on reviews.
My only guess is that stepping into a room, putting down envelope, showering, Getting a BBBJ, little foreplay, and then going straight to sex, is not appreciated by the provider. I love to make women happy and enjoy themselves but i am that kind of person when im hobbying. Wham Bam thank you mam is my thing. Yes, i know many women are different, but this just seems like a courtesy in addition to cost. I hope i didnt offend anyone, just want to know what is the deal with all that DATY lol.
No expectations a lot of us just enjoy DATY and like to do it as part of the total experience. Some providers actually do not care for it all the time but put up with it because it makes us happy.
A question i have is about DATY. Almost every review i read either mentions DATY, something i dont want to do with anyone other than someone im in love with.Is DATY something as expected as showering and placing the envelope on the dresser or a unspoken courtesy? I understand already that you do what you want so i dont need any feedback on that, just curious as to why so many men are reporting this act on reviews.
My only guess is that stepping into a room, putting down envelope, showering, Getting a BBBJ, little foreplay, and then going straight to sex, is not appreciated by the provider. I love to make women happy and enjoy themselves but i am that kind of person when im hobbying. Wham Bam thank you mam is my thing. Yes, i know many women are different, but this just seems like a courtesy in addition to cost. I hope i didnt offend anyone, just want to know what is the deal with all that DATY lol.
Most of the time I don't do it unless I'm very attracted to them. I will warn you that several girls have made subtle or not so subtle hints that they expect DATY, so in some cases it may be a little awkward to get out of. Thankfully the ones that have done that to me have been the ones I've wanted to do it with.
Reason being, I like to see them get off as well as me. Never had anyone request it specifically, but it's something I enjoy doing it. If you do not want to dine on her, then don't. You are, IMHO, not obligated to do it.
I think the foreplay, kissing and oral pleasuring by both parties, makes it seem more like a real date, rather than just a P4P encounter.
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It's your $, the time is to be spent the way you want to, as long as you're a gentleman and respectful.
If you don't want to daty then don't. Most guys like to daty, not sure why, it's part of the foreplay, but I've had sessions with no daty. If you're a wam bam thank you mam type of guy, as you stated, I'd make sure that you read the juicy details of the lady you want to see. You may be interested in a PSE session not a GFE session.
and to become a regular customer.
What she likes sexually is not the real question. You are the customer. As long as you are clean and well behaved and leave the envelope then you can choose anything you like on her menu and leave the rest.
Now, if she wants to hire you for sex, that's another story.
What she likes sexually is not the real question. You are the customer. As long as you are clean and well behaved and leave the envelope then you can choose anything you like on her menu and leave the rest.
Now, if she wants to hire you for sex, that's another story.
I enjoy DATY and I enjoy watching her enjoy it. I also like that it usually puts her in a better mood and makes for a better session.
But no, it's not expected or necessary. I doubt people will be offended by what you said, no reason to feel anything of the sort. Do your homework by reading the reviews and reading her web site. Treat her politely, be clean, understand what is and isn't on her menu, communicate a little so she doesn't have to read your mind. All will be good.
Some guys DATY and some don't. I love it, but it's fine with me too if you don't.
DATY is not something I get off on. I do it for providers that I like. I want them to enjoy our session as much as I do so that they will want to see me in the future. I usually include it in the review so other potential clients will know it is available, which is good for the provider if that is something a client is in to. I have heard that some guys like to do it so much that they will do it the entire session if they can! Not me. Dont get me wrong, I love it and have no problem doing it for good providers. I love bjs. I would love to have an hour long bj, but, out of respect for her I would not want to put someone throught that! Seems like it would get quite boring for her. So, I love to do it as well as kissing. It seems to add to the experience for me. GFE experience, as I have always done it on my girlfriends. When I started this hobby I really though I would never kiss or do daty on a provider, but now that I have been into it for a while i do it regularly. I have been with providers that hinted that they wanted it, but if I was not into them, I did not do it. I have to really like her. Afterall, it is my money and i do believe that, since I am paying, I shoud get what I want first! If she wants to pay me (I know that will never happen! but if it did) I would do all I could to get her off, just as I expect as a paying customer.
Gosh. I really enjoy DATY. When I know she has cum, it's so much fun.
A question i have is about DATY. Almost every review i read either mentions DATY, something i dont want to do with anyone other than someone im in love with.Is DATY something as expected as showering and placing the envelope on the dresser or a unspoken courtesy? I understand already that you do what you want so i dont need any feedback on that, just curious as to why so many men are reporting this act on reviews.
My only guess is that stepping into a room, putting down envelope, showering, Getting a BBBJ, little foreplay, and then going straight to sex, is not appreciated by the provider. I love to make women happy and enjoy themselves but i am that kind of person when im hobbying. Wham Bam thank you mam is my thing. Yes, i know many women are different, but this just seems like a courtesy in addition to cost. I hope i didnt offend anyone, just want to know what is the deal with all that DATY lol.
Hopefully the link below is not the reason you avoid DATY with providers.
In my experience, professional providers take very good care of their "girlie parts", and the chance of having a bad DATY experience is significantly lower with them than with civie dates.
I love DATY, and make it a big part of most of my sessions. Now that I think about it, the providers' response to my efforts is a big part of whom I choose to pay return visits.