I agree with Summer. IMO, if a provider offers PSE, it means she is a little more open minded and is willing to accommodate a fantasy, or even a fetish...something other than a sweet girlfriend experience with talents yours may not have. What fetishes and services that would be, is up to the provider and their reviews will let you know what she likes and if that is your cup of tea or not. I just read a highly reviewed providers etiquette page on her website and even though she has never had a TER score lower than a 9 and offers mind blowing BBBJ's and CIM, she says clearly that she is not into fetishes and if you are, she is not the lady for you.

I used to like GFE when I began to hobby but it bores me now. I've come to the conclusion that I have always been attracted to strippers, because they are so dang hot and wear very erotic clothing made to please men. Call it a fetish, but I love women that will dress in clothing like diamond fishnets and garder belts, 5" stripper shoes, thigh high leather or PVC boots with heels etc, more so than a cute teddy or a chemise. That just turns me on more.

To add to that, I have recently found a local provider who's incall is less than 5 miles from my place, is very attractive, does doubles with another provider I did doubles with last year, and in all of her pictures, she is wearing the same kinds of stripper outfits I was looking at in the lingerie superstore. Her TER reviews described an experience that many called porn like, vocal, erotic etc. I have found my ATF and will see her exclusively from now on because she is EXACTLY what I have been looking for and there is nothing I have to ask her to do, because she's like that. Shes really my kind of women!

To me, this is very exciting and the reason I got into the hobby in the first place!

Other things that come up are the GFE should include kissing, while PSE often does not.

There's a lot of attitude kind of difference where the PSE doesn't act loving so much as just a horny gal who wants to get fucked hard, like in a porn film.

A GFE on the other hand, is more like a girlfriend and wants to get to know you a bit and be a friend, etc.

There's no real fine line and many gals incorporate elements of both to one degree or another.

Although not exactly a newbie, could someone tell me how these 2 services differ?

From what i've read (lol), PSE usually includes Gr**k.

you shouldn't take it to mean much. They're used as little more than vague marketing buzzwords to suggest that she offers more than an uninspired, generic performance. Whatever they may mean to hobbyists, as a promise of service they're about as valid as "I'm Lovin' It."

Attitude, what is offered, how it is performed. On my website it is semi-categorized. But every provider has a different twist to it.

Just a side note on "fetishes" as stated by the LG on the EH - a true fetish is a substitute for intercourse (her words)  versus the desire for erotic elements to be included as an enhancement to the event. Therefore, the sexy clothes (whatever style you like) and role playing does not have to be called a "fetish".  Though many many people refer to anything a little out of the standard/norm do refer to things as fetishes!

Have fun and stay safe!
Summer

Nice! Summer, you just made me feel a lot more normal LOL. Women always tell me that for them to have the most intense O's, its more mental than physical. Its the way the lady feels that really sends her over the edge. [So I've heard]

For me, the erotic outfits strippers often wear really enhances a woman's figure and her assets in a way that gets my mind racing. It's totally mental. Yes its just heels and a garder belt, but it enhances their legs and butt [the lovely women's figure] in a way that drives me crazy! A garder belt and straps for the stockings wraps around a woman's ass like a picture frame when viewed from the back and stockings with little bows...WOW. I can't explain it. I just know my feelings of desire are amplified when I see that.

I always thought it was a fetish because I am more attracted to women partially clothed [lingerie] than naked. I'm so specific about it and obsess on it a little bit, but now I just think I know what I like!

Especially for what you are describing as what "turns you on".  All you need to do is ask the gal if she will accomodate your "stripper attire" request.  And don't stop there pal, ask if she will do the "dance" for you, and frankly most other fairly benign types of requests as these.  And in most cases, the gals will see your requests as quite benign, and not intrusive whatsoever.

Now, if you're looking for a serious BDSM session...well again, just ask the gals.  You will be surprised at how accomodating many of these gals (and most will NOT advertise or have reviews that discuss this) are quite adept at many "fetishes".  And in many cases, the gals have heard all of this.  Not all will be up for more "difficult" sessions, but if you don't ask, you won't know.  But remember, NOT to ask for particulars until screening is complete.  And don't be graphic in your requests.  And if the scene you are looking for is a more "bizarre" request (at least you may think it is more bizarre), consider asking her at the end of a regular GFE session if she would indulge your requests for the "next" visit.

So many guys are so "timid" in letting the gals know what they really want to do.  They (the gals) don't read minds, but will certainly listen to your fantasy request.  And like I said earlier, she may very well smile at you and say "that sounds like fun!".