Very new to this and while I am still learning what the acronyms stand for I still do not know what they mean.  If I decide to go with a girl with GFE what exactly should I expect to get?  I would assume kissing is what makes it a GFE but what else?  As for PSE I expect you get everything but can you kiss?  I must say I feel much better having a message board where I can research from because I would be scared to death if I just jumped right in.  Thanks for the help.

You should expect a GFE to be like being with a girlfriend.  Yes kissing and real kissing, like lovers.  Usually BBBJ is also part of this.  DATY too.

PSE is what you see in movies, usually not alot of kissing if at all.  It is about business and alot of it.  She should do all the things your girlfriend won't, sloppy nasty down and dirty BJs.  Probably CIM at least CO something,  Maybe anal.

But there are no hard and fast rules.  Some say GFE and kiss but no tongue!!!!  But really the best way is to read reviews of a lady you are interested in.  For everybody YMMV, but with a body of reviews you will figure out how much your milage will vary.

When the door closes and everyone is comfortable, some will tell you the do's and don'ts.  If you read reviews you should be pretty familiar with them before hand.  I almost never get told Do's or Don'ts because I am very respectful and nice.  If the girl is at ease all will go well.

I just proceed like lovers do when they are alone and if I encounter a don't, I don't.  Now don't go trying to slip it in Greece without letting her know, even for a gal that does, this behavior will make it a don't!

Before you go there, pay some attention to the O.  You will know by her cues if you are getting a red light or an green light for more.

(You-Mileage-May-Vary)

The ambiguity of GFE & PSE are often predicated on YMMV.

All i can say is that i just had my first PSE, and it was pretty much a sweet GFE....except on a PS level of talent.  So there was the tender stuff, kissing and caressing that i wanted, DFK and all that, but when we went to work, she was really going to work.

I can't say the same for most PSEs in general tho, as someone else said, YMMV.

In my experience, GFE refers more to what's on the menu than the actual style of the session. GFE vs. non-GFE more will be on the menu – DFK, DATY, finger insertion, BBBJ.

There are some GFE experiences that really do remind you of a girlfriend. There are others that are clearly about athletic, high intensity sex which is nothing like any girlfriend I was lucky enough to have. That's all within the category of GFE without even venturing into PSE land.

The main thing, as Foodcritic said, is to read the substance of the reviews and try to get a sense whether the style of a particular provider suits your desires. Do you want someone who reminds you of a girlfriend, or do you want to get your world rocked, albeit in a natural up front way? Both are available within the GFE category.

Gfe
we offer companionship, hugging,cuddling,making you feel important as if you are the only one.. Not sure why they call it girlfriend experience-

girlfriends dont do that ! LOL!

PSE

Thats the wife experience

fuck us nasty , leave the money, leave

LOL

can you take the "trash out" on your way out the door?   roflmao

PSE usually includes some, or all of the above..

BBBJTCCIMNQNS (Bareback Blow job to Completion Cum in Mouth No Quit No Spit)  ie. she swallows.  BBDT (Deep Throat) will probably be included. Greek (anal sex).  Bukkake/Facials (blowing a load on her face). Fisting is a possibility (self expanatory). More than one guy, or one girl with you at the session. Toys (Dildos, Butt plugs, Vibrators. nipple clamps, restraints, handcuffs). Some PSEs allow videotaping of sessions (Gina Rollins below does for instance)

The best sessions IMHO involve a combo GFE/PSE provider. Four touring providers  cum to mind that fit those criteria are: (in no specific order):

Gemini Starr

Victoria Jolie

Bebedoll

Gina Rollins






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Some ladies use PSE as code for Greek.

Gotta love this guy and his libido!!!

GFE
Glorious  Followme  Extravaganza

PSE
Please  Stop  Exaggerating

Thank You
2008=27

OK, I think I have found someone who I find attractive, has great reviews and is gfe/pse.  Not sure I'm actually going to go thru with this but I might do it in the next week. I need to know what happens when I walk thru that door.  My first thought is just to say that this is my first time an can she walk me through this.  There are some sticky (levity) situations that I dont know how to address.  When and how do I pay?  If I finish in the first five minutes then what?  Is there any other questions I dont know enough to ask?

Obviously it's not good to over think things. You'll drive yourself crazy.

First, before you go make sure you are squeaky clean. Try if anyway possible, to shower immediately before.

Of course you can say it's your first time. A good provider will pick up on your mood and work with you. Almost every provider has explicit directions on how she wants the payment handled on her website. Generally, as soon as you arrive you should place an unmarked envelope with the "donation" in a prominent place where she can see it. But don't say anything about the donation. Just set it out.

If  you finish in the first five minutes you might rest for a while and then try to go again. If that's a concern you might try to be sure you've found a provider who allows a "second pop" during a session at no extra cost.

There are lots of other things to do. Do you enjoy DATY? You could spend 15-20 minutes pleasuring the provider. You could chat. What I would not do is leave early. Hopefully you could find some fun way to pass the time.

Good luck