What I mean is I've been lonely for awhile now and I've been seeing this one provider steadily for the last few months (although trying two others,)
and while I enjoy the time spent and the recreation has ranged from great to OK,
what bothers me is the little things...
making an appointment, her forgetting...
I ask for water, towel etc... she forgets...
she says to call and just say Hi even if not making an appointment for later, and then she is very clueless or seems to be rushed when I call
her telling me shes in day college, but when I call
She says she's a college student and takes day classes (like above she has to go as she sometimes says she has to get to a night class) I know this is probably just a way to say she's got another client waiting or arriving soon.
She works out of a pad with several other girls. Pretty silly right. Obviously, I like her. I guess I'm just wondering about the finer points of all this? I don't mind playing by the rules I guess I just want a little more honest consideration.
Does any of this make sense?
Now that I read this I should probably give up providers and find a real girlfriend. Thanks for listening. Any constructive comments are appreciated.
Bingo !!! yes find a real girlfriend ....... and stop trying to make this provider one .... your falling for her and she's being nice by trying to keep you as a client .. and your reading her wrong .. this is why i do not tip, why i seldom have dinner dates, take a provider to a show, or do anything with them other than the incredible time we spend together in the sack ... because i know what your going through and your setting yourself up for the big crash ....hobby safe, hobby well, hobby all you can be .......
I understand not doing the other things for frear of attatchment but what does tipping have to do with anything? I thought tipping is something you do to show your appreciation for a provider going above and beyond for you I didn't think it had anything to do with having an attatchment, if so I may need to change servers when I go to Denny's *smile*
-- Modified on 5/9/2003 4:40:52 PM
It shouldn't have anything to do with it ... and a provider going above and beyond for the hobbiest I would classify as a true GFE, but still not in need of a tip .... but the male ego being so fragile men feel that they must tip or need to tip so the provider may think better of them, remember them next time, or give them other benefits that they may not give others... overall I don't think there is any benefit to be gained by tipping because the service should always be 100% always... as for Denny's if your getting poor service don't tip, or reduce the tip and tell the server or manager why......MHO
-- Modified on 5/9/2003 6:00:58 PM
Understandable as far as tipping the provider sometimes though people tip out of sheer gratitude.
PS The whole Dennys thing...it was a lame attempt to make a joke. I was basicaly stating that if tipping means you have an attatchment to someone.........ah nevermind lol
-- Modified on 5/10/2003 6:23:33 AM