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Did you see her? EOM
OK made my first appointment in 2 hours. She's local. Has 3 reviews on here all from January 2014. We texted back and forth a few times. She texted me her address...seems legit but of course I am nervous. $150 hr told her I wanted an hour session including 30 min massage for an hour total...can someone relax my nerves!!
What kind of session you want? FBSM or Full Service? For FBSM, the rates are not all that unreasonable depending on the area. Also you can find Full Service on BP for that price, but the service is going to be hit or miss, and newbies are not advised to go that route.
If you want to post the review link here, we can assist you better.
otta be there in an hour and a half.
I'd be really stupid to advise someone to go and see her.. Someone who advertises on Facebook and works off trailers is not someone I consider safe to hobby.
You are a newbie, and I would advise a newbie to only hobby with well reviewed providers who have gained good reputation in the industry. BP is not for newbies.
If BP is the only game in town, you might want to really really learn how to do this. I would backchannel with some of the other guys in your area to see if there are any better recommendations. Another choice would be go to a bigger metropolitan area to hobby.
That's my advice, but again you are free to make your own decisions.
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You should always look at who has reviewed her. Have they reviewed many others? Have they been whitelisted? Reviews are only considered "legitimate" if they have reviewed several providers who are considered "legitimate". You have to do your research. If the reviewers only have a couple of reviews each then I would stay away for now until she has more "legitimate" reviews.
She has 3 recent reviews. All from regulars and recent
She seems legit, but not my cup of tea. And I agree, for a newbie, he should save up a few more dollars to meet one of the well-reviewed Carolina ladies (who can school him on the hobby). Also, he's probably within a 1-2 hour drive radius of Raleigh, NC - plenty of legit play in that city! Totally worth the drive over some backwoods encounter.
this one. Love to hear your perspective. She seems fine, two of the reviewers have multiple reviews. Granted for a new guy another situation might be more safe but I'm not sure what the picken's are in that area. Geographically not everyone has the luxury of going to the top 100 and making a choice. So what say you Ms. brilove? Give us your best insider analysis. Curly and I wouldn't do it but we're cowards and he has an aversion to trailers.
As a provider one of the things I do in screening is to first make sure the reference a_k_a provider is "legitimate". In doing that I would first ask her to message me from p 411 or ter. Then I would look at her reviews as well as her reviewers' either reviews. Because this person is not from my area it takes a bit more work for me to see if she is legit in my eyes since I mostly know the providers from my area and the ones on my twitter. I don't have the time to do all the research now but I can see that the 2 guys who have reviewed her have several other reviews ... that is a positive thing. But that alone isn't enough for me. In those other reviews I would look for reviews of providers who are active in the community. To do that I would search the local regional forum board to see how much they post and what they post about. This tells me 1 thing and that is that if the provider is active on the board they are more likely to pay close attention to their reviews. There are many bp girls out there that either do you not know they have reviews or don't play close intention to them. That makes it much easier for someone to write them a fake review. For example there was a fake review written on me just last month by someone who only have written 2 reviews. Because I pay close attention to my reviews I was aware I had a fake review and got it removed. I hope this makes sense and I know it might seem like quite a bit of work but I consider it worth my safety.
Listen honey I already apologized for my fake review of you, can you please leave it alone. jk, thanks for the insight, interesting and informative stuff.
Yes I did...well worth it...I was extremely nervous
I'm not sure why you wouldn't recommend.
For the OP however, tell her she should include her TER ID in her ad so that people won't be scared of her.
I would not recommend based on my own standards and value system.
The first one is tough. Extreme nervousness should quickly change to slightly nervous and mostly excited. It's like Christmas any time of the year you want it. As mentioned write a review of her which will help you down the line when trying to see other ladies. I was so freaked out after my first time I went and saw her again the next weekend. Just wait you'll sit around thinking about how great it was and what you wished you would have done or done differently and it can all be solved by picking up the phone. Damn I think I'll call someone.
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