Hi everyone. I'm new at this but I was just wondering if most ladies are open to fetishes. I see ads online but most don't list fetishes as available. Would there be a good way to ask this before making an appointment? Would it be bad taste to ask? I'm very much into pantyhose and feet and i'm curious to try out this fantasy with a woman. Thanks

I am sure that if you ask in polite manner you will find that most providers will not consider it bad taste

Many reputable providers will have a web site.
The site will normally discuss services delivered. Fetishes will usually be listed.
If the website has a contact form, there is usually a space where you can write to the provider. Mention your desire in this space.
Also if you have a vip memebership the details of the review and itms on the menu will be listed. Good luck

without arousing suspicions as to whether or not you may be LE.

The basic rule is "no specific sexual acts".  So it would be fine to ask if a provider would wear fishnet stocking (because there is no law against wearing fishnet stockings.)

On the other hand, asking for split crotch panties may be treading on the border because the split crotch would seem to be suggesting intercourse, though it's very debatable.

When in doubt, take the less suggestive path and mostly rely on reviews and information on her site to make up your mind.

Most gals are very open to dressing however you like, especially if you offer to cover the clothing costs.

start an email repore with the girl you choose, and ask her that way..a hint is usually listed in her website, thats one of the few ways we can put it out there.
Jay

I share your fetish and have found 9 times out of 10 the provider is happy to indulge me if I ask nicely.  Bring brand new items with you for them to wear and if they are enthusiastic feel free to show your appreciation with a tip.

Thanks for all the advice

Items must be new... would that apply to leather apparel as well?