After that it's about demeanor and hygiene.  

Your "size" and sexual abilities are less important. You may have what you think is a great cock but if it's the tenth one she's seen that week she could most likely care less. Ditto for your tongue.  Providers have guys day in and day out trying to prove how good they are at licking pussy.  Honestly, the little thing gets tired after a while.

Be polite, clean and respectful.  It will take you very far in this hobby.

Ladies, for you what do you consider the most important factor to enjoying yourself during a session?

Size?

Motion in the ocean?

His oral skills?

His personality?

Sense of humor?

How he behaves with you?

Today it's a fat wallet and a little personality.
Tomorrow, who knows....lol
I do love my fellas a bunch..!

I would believe the number ONE "most important thing is"

That the envelope is filled properly.

After that, it is what it is

correct.  Of the ladies I've gotten to know well enough that they talk about biz at all to me, other than really bad hygiene, the only thing I've ever heard them talk about that just sets them off is getting shorted on the donation.

On the other hand, if you are a big tipper, that seems to REALLY turn them on too!!!  At least it certainly seems to make them eager to want to see you again.

Good hygiene and right amount in the envelope and you are all ACES!!

Money is a big help too!

it's really only a "fat wallet".

But maybe if he's a nice guy...nah, only if he has his ATM pin number readily available

I agree...I tend to have a much better time if the chemistry is there..The envelope is a given.. but once the envelope is taken care of, there is so much more to him...I enjoy humor and a great personality.. If he is relaxed and easy going, makes for a great time all around. I am lucky 95% of the gentlemen I have met have had great personalities. You tend to remember them more, least I do.

I am sure I am not the only one who feels this way ..  

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Personality, humor and how he treats me. If someone comes in acting like a jacka**, it doesn't matter how "good" he is in bed, it's not a turn-on. Women are wired differently, & if you're not attracted to that person's personality, how good he is, or how he looks does not matter.

Making sure you have the correct donation is only half the battle.... the saying "Nice guys finish last" does not apply in this setting, & the more of a gentlemen you are, the more likely you are to have a better connection with the lady

envelope does refer to the contents as well; THE money for her time.

You should have that one figured out by now!
Just in case you don't,,,

...it puzzles me as to how you know so much about females.
I starting to believe you've managed to get into our heads or something..how';s the ride thus far...hehe

"Providers have guys day in and day out trying to prove how good they are at licking pussy"

honestly personality and a sense of humor melts my heart! i dislike pushy, man  handling kinda guys - i rather have a laid back chill "420" kind of vibe. there's nothing like laughing at some jokes during a good f%$*(! ya know?

Honestly, my ATF and another now-retired lady are two of my closest friends in real life.  We have talked about this stuff for years.  They trust me and have always been very open about the reality of the hobby from their side.

A woman will put her body through a lot to get that envelope. Sometimes by the end of the day the last thing she wants anywhere near her is another cock. Still, if she knows you are a good guy she will look forward to seeing you. They do this for the money but the nicer you are the better you are going to get treated.  It's just that simple.

One of the most important factors is how a gent behaves when we are together.
Of course,the envelope is nice but a good personality and sense of humor go hand in hand.
Some of my best appointments are with gents who have a great personality that includes a great sense of humor in these instances time just flies by.Behavior and being respectful is very important to me.
Skills are an added pleasant bonus.
Another important factor you did not mention is being clean very important to me a gent who could have all the above factors going for him but if he is not clean that is a problem.
Just my thoughts....

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