Do not exist in the hobby. If, as you state, you're an avid reader of the newb board, than you know the mantra "newbs should stick with well reviewed providers" Length of time providing is NO substitute for solid reviews!! Have you tried using google/images or tineye.com? If the pictures are stolen these sites MAY reveal that. Good luck
Hi, So I have been in lurch mode for a while and have been an avid reader on the Newbie message board. And now have a question, is there any way that I can be absolutely sure that I am not going to get busted by LE by a provider who does not have reviews. There are a couple of girls that I'd love to see but am too nervous to call. Both have numerous ads and seem to have been providers for awhile, yet no reviews, at least that I can find anywhere. I would appreciate any and all advice. Thanks!
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but if you see the well reviewed providers found on TER, you'll be at 99.999%
Honestly, you need to worry more about the wife or others finding out and making life tough for you.
Believe me, divorce is a lot more expensive than a fine and court costs.
To that end, go to the Self Help Manual you'll find linked on this page and read up on all the tactics you'll need to know of to hobby safely.
Also be sure to get VIP membership and read reviews to find providers you'll enjoy.
Become a faithful follower of this board as well.
Welcome and best wishes.
Especially when seeing providers with little or no history, meaning REVIEWS!!!!!! The ones you describe sound like young hotties, and just because they have posted a bunch of ads, and I'm guessing you mean on something like Backpage, does not mean they are safe to see. As a newbie, it is never a good idea to see providers with no reviews. Look for some well-reviewed providers that advertise they are newbie friendly.
Post on the ISO board that you are looking for newbie-friendly providers in whatever your town is. You could also post something similar on your regional board. Read the ads on your regional ad board too. You might see some that say right there that they are newbie friendly. Get your name out there by posting on threads on your regional board so the girls will get an idea of your personality. Just being a lurker here is not really going to do you much good beyond reading information, you need to be proactive.
If you don't yet have VIP membership, GET IT!!!!! You can't read the really important stuff in reviews without it, and that's what you need to see. Feel free to PM me is you have other questions.
Swim
Do not exist in the hobby. If, as you state, you're an avid reader of the newb board, than you know the mantra "newbs should stick with well reviewed providers" Length of time providing is NO substitute for solid reviews!! Have you tried using google/images or tineye.com? If the pictures are stolen these sites MAY reveal that. Good luck
No solid reviews = no see .
Sorry it's a rule I learned ( only once ) and it is the #1 for me .
Does it mean it will be mind blowing for you ...........Nothing is guaranteed but it must be your starting point .
It's the BEST way to avoid the LE issue that concerns me - not 100% but 99.999 for sure .
I would be more concerned about the ole bait and switch . The upsell . The 2 hour wait and eventual no show . The drunk girl in the photos . Just a ton of other disappointing issues when there is no review.
Trust me dude your seeing some hottie and thinking with the small head - we all have . 99.999% of the time the little head will disappoint you and waste your hard earned dough .
No review = no see for a newbie for sure !
I am a newbie just trying to explain the first golden rule .
Somehow in your avid reading, you missed the #1 piece of advice we constantly repeat for newbies to stay out of trouble: Stick to well-reviewed providers. Leave the adventure of TOFTT to mongers with more experience and a better developed sense of what to watch out for.
I hesitate to see women that advertise in escort malls. I have had good luck with some, bad luck with others. One of the potential issues that you can face with incall or outcall with a escort mall lady is that she can bring unwanted attention to you, making arrest more likely. Regardless of your marital status, economic position, or level of fame, discretion is monumental in this business. You should look for professional providers that deliver what is promised and don't attract unwanted attention to themselves or you. Experienced hobbyists and some newbies have given you sound advice. A summary of that advice is buy a VIP membership and use reviews of of providers and agencies that serve your general area. Make an appointment with providers that meet your looks requirements and have performance ratings of 7 or above.
Even if you have known her for years, she has lots of great reviews, and knows her shit...if you are the wrong place at the wrong time...bad things can happen.
That being said, as a newbie, you shouldn't even be considering providers with no reviews. LE risk is the least of your worries...B&S (bait and switch), ROB's (rip-off bitches), pimps and other undesirables, all have to be factored in as well. Best you have your first rendezvous' with ladies who are well-reviewed, and have been in the game for awhile. They will likely screen you thoroughly, but that is good in the end for you as well. One of the most important things you need to do is your homework, and don't be afraid to make contact when you find someone who fits your bill.
Being nervous is natural, but face the fear, and do it anyway!
CD
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