I'm under the impression that some providers react much differently than others when it comes to DATY.  I LOVE to go down on a woman and know what I'm doing but I've been with providers who react differently  as in night and day.  One provider just lays there.  Sure she spreads her legs a bit wider to accommodate me or get herself more comfortable but just doesn't react. AT ALL.  DATY with another provider is out of this world!  She really gets into it with me, squirming and moaning and breathing super heavy.  She grabs my head, my hair, gently grabs onto my back (shoulders) lightly with her nails, etc.  I've been with providers who are in between those two reactions as well.

I'm surprised you haven't also found this wide disparity of responses in non-P4P sexual encounters too.  I know I have.

I couldn't agree more

Every woman is different. Also, some may not be as comfortable with their bodies as others and this could also be a factor (even in this type meeting).  

I don't think some providers "prevent" themselves from getting off.
I imagine a lot of them just can't. I've only been on four "dates", but had two of them confess to me that 99.9% of the time they fake the orgasms. Swear to god. Don't ask how it came up, lol.

Posted By: YI812

I'm under the impression that some providers react much differently than others when it comes to DATY.  I LOVE to go down on a woman and know what I'm doing but I've been with providers who react differently  as in night and day.  One provider just lays there.  Sure she spreads her legs a bit wider to accommodate me or get herself more comfortable but just doesn't react. AT ALL.  DATY with another provider is out of this world!  She really gets into it with me, squirming and moaning and breathing super heavy.  She grabs my head, my hair, gently grabs onto my back (shoulders) lightly with her nails, etc.  I've been with providers who are in between those two reactions as well.  
   
 So my question is, do some providers purposely prevent themselves from reaching an orgasm during DATY and others "just let it go?"  I'm thinking, "if you offer it, enjoy it!"  Yes, I know there are some providers out there who only allow themselves to cum with DATY OUTSIDE of their client dates.  When I go on a date I not only want to get myself off I also try to make sure SHE gets off too.  
   
 Providers and fellow hobbyists, please chime in

....but some women need a substantial amount of time to climax, and TBH if I have only booked an hour session I could easily spend that entire time pleasuring her. As enjoyable as that might be for the both of us, I am selfish - I want that DATY mostly for myself!  I definitely do enjoy performing it also on my provider....but since the meter is running it is more of an engine revver for me than a climax maker for her.

I think everyone has given u excellent advice on this thread.  
No two women will have the same reaction to the same technique.  Think of a woman as being a guitar. You have to get to know your guitar and break it in because no two guitars are the same.  Also, some women need digital stimulation. I need a finger inside me too.  I love it when the give of DATY knows how to find my gspot.  That's when the earth begins to move for me. Ask her what she likes before u start.

I know some ladies might be nymphos or just horny that day  but I'm willing to bet my paycheck most ladies do NOT get into it with out a deeper level of comfort with their clients.

What would be a good way to ask this of a provider during a session?  I would love to explore and find this, but should we just come out and ask?  Should we take a more subtle approach?  I would love to hear from a provider's perspective the best approach here.