Is it necessary to belong to one or the other?  I've only seen one provider that meets my narrow set of standards, so I emailed. She said "No Newbies", so I asked of P411 would make a difference, and she said no, Not without a "Recommendation". Is this standard practice? then how do you get established?

Are on-line forms on providers sites safe to complete, as long as it is a well reviewed provider?


I'm assuming that if you are going to engage  a true professional, your identity is held in confidence and you don't have to worry about a shake down. Or do you?

Sorry for all the questions.

Thanks in advance.

.... necessary for the most part yes VERY (to have date-check and/or p411).  BUT if you at least have at least 2 verifiable provider references then for some ladies a p411 or dc acct might not be neccessary. Usually a provider will state if using her booking for is mandatory.

there are providers on p411 who are "newbie friendly"..  I have been on p411 a few years a really like it. They verify you when you join..its pretty painless..

Some providers will not see anyone without references from other providers. Some will see newbies who have joined D-C or P411. And there are many for whom D-C/P411 helps but they still want to see references.

You just happened to inquire with a provider who falls into the first group. You will need to get started with a newbie-friendly provider.

I don't recommend filling out those online forms. Usually, you have the option of sending her screening info in email or over the phone, which is less impersonal and generally more secure. Once you click 'Submit' on those forms you have no way of knowing where in the ether your info may wind up.

How much potentially incriminating personal info you want to entrust with anyone you don't know well, no matter how professionally she presents herself, is an open question each of us has to answer for himself. Many here have no problem with it. I do, but I've found that with patience it is possible to see plenty of great providers based on references, not identity exposure. (BTW, a "shakedown" isn't a big concern for me.)

Thanks.

After I got started with Date-Check, I found that more girls I wanted to see use P411, although there is some overlap. Not that I regret having D-C. Between the two, I've got my bases covered.

If you're not hearing many requests for P411, though, there wouldn't be much point in joining.

It may depend on what region you're in. Some verification sites are more widely recognized in certain parts of the country, e.g., hardly anybody around here uses RS2000.

Thanks.  I've only been focused in the Northeast and Atlanta area and haven't seen any potential dates taking P411 exclusively.

Both sites I agree help but I would advise that if you do sign up for P411 you can do a search on the site for "newbie friendly"providers in your area.So,that will narrow your search in your area so you are not contacting ladies who will not see you without references.Every lady has her own way of doing things so I cannot say that is standard practice.Stick with well-reviewed ladies there are some that will see newbies.Some ladies do require their website forms to be filled out and some offer alternatives.I have a website form but I also offer to have the info sent by email if some gents are not comfortable filling out the form.
Good luck to you!