The previous poster had really good advise... I've heard used before for meetings with couples. BOTH need to be screened. Then need to speak to wife on the phone. Sometimes guys dream these us as "Surprise" and the wife freaks out... she runs out, he runs after her, provider is left holding the bag, no payment, & maybe cops coming. Another scenerio is a wife trying to set her cheating husband up for a "gottya". Asking sexual questions is typically a RED FLAG! I know some Newbies are that dumb... but can you afford to take the risk. This is way too complicated. I think passing would be smarter. H
Ok so I am a new provider, about 3 months now. I was contacted on TER Chat room by a "lady" she said she was looking for a companion for her husband.
Did not want him to find out she was going to make a proposition with me to see him. We were making plans on meeting at a bar and me introducing myself to him etc. etc. etc.
Now I am not a total dummy, I was cautious from the start. If something sounds too good to be true it usually is. Thats my pholosophy...anyways.
So we have been chatting for about a month... tonight she informs me that he will be in my area next weekend and she found out her hubby had a yahoo account...wants me to message him...wants me to try to meet up with him when he comes.... im like ok..ill go along with it. I start talking to him.. i say hello he says hello etc etc. He asks if he knows me...i say no was just scrolling thru yahoo... i dont even know if u can randomly get peoples names from yahoo.
So he is pretty open with me almost from the start. About being married. About his wife not likeing to travel, or CIM or BJ, started asking sexual questions, was getting very excited and then starts talking about if i ever thought about getting married.
Ok I dont care how stupid you are but there is no way in hell you can tell you want to be with someone within the first 30 min of a conversation. And further more maybe there are some women out there that will just fall at a guys feet cuz he supposedly is well off and has lots of money but idk i have more intregrity then that and i am far from shallow.
Then he starts getting excited about being dominated (which i had talked to the wife about cuz she said she was submissive) So things are kinda clashing here big time.
I swear i have a question in here... anyways has anyone else had this happen to them? Does it sound like a complete BS Story to anyone else cuz it sure does to me... I am considering calling them both (or all in the same) out over our chats. I dont understand why people feel they must play games. And if your too much of a damn coward to be open and honest then GTFO right? Sorry very frustrated I dont understand some peoples stupidity!!
and telling you to move on. At least that's what I get from your post. If thi scenario caused you to take the time to write this post, then I think you know what to do. Oh, and welcome to the hobby, you ain't seen nothin' yet.
Yes, as someone said it could be that blacksheep uncle of yours, LEO. Or it could be some guy, pretending he is his wife and trying to get some free cyber sex, or free sex. Hmm, wifey is trying to set him up with a lady as a surprise and when you contact him, he immediately comes on to you??? What is that about? Personally, I think the next step will be his wanting to talk with you on the phone while he masturbates. (Listen for that heavy breathing and sigh of relief. Lol)
End this game by telling her you need to prescreen them both. She needs to provide both of their info. Then tell her you never play with a man, when the wife is setting it up or is involved,unless you have a conversation on the phone with her. I always believe this is a good practice as you can determine: a) boundaries, b) any jealousy issues and c) whether you feel comfortable with the proposed situation.
The previous poster had really good advise... I've heard used before for meetings with couples. BOTH need to be screened. Then need to speak to wife on the phone. Sometimes guys dream these us as "Surprise" and the wife freaks out... she runs out, he runs after her, provider is left holding the bag, no payment, & maybe cops coming. Another scenerio is a wife trying to set her cheating husband up for a "gottya". Asking sexual questions is typically a RED FLAG! I know some Newbies are that dumb... but can you afford to take the risk. This is way too complicated. I think passing would be smarter. H
i ahve in oast had men call me to use toys on wife. and all kindsa strange scenarios i choose to stick with one on one appts lately n its less headache, but i mean its uo to you. but i always get noticable alota time wasted in the arranging n talkn of stuff when its some one hirin u for there s.o. you end uo doing enough footwork for three appts worth oit seems, i had aguy recently want me to meet his wife n he calle dlike every week for three months n talkd bout it n what i would whear n scenarios n it never end uo happenin. i dont know.
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