I first posted this on the provider board to see how the other ladies felt. The response was very positive so here you go. Please read.



My Pointers for Newbies:

Before you contact a provider

Please remember that she is a person. Not a machine. She likely has her own life, kids, a So and so on and so forth. Maybe she has a real life job. Where she goes and really works. Maybe she does this on the side. Maybe she is at the gym, shopping, on vacation, at a relative's birth/funeral, at her kids dance recital or football game. Maybe she volunteers at the hospital or women's shelter. My point is, when you contact a provider do not expect her to email you within moments, hours or even the same day. She may very well be on vacation or dang, maybe she's at her incall with someone else who had to go through the same stuff as you to get a date.  I try to get back to all email within 24-48 hours. Sometimes I can but sometimes I can't. I'm a mom. I have a life. I have kids. The world works in strange and mysterious ways. The point is, providers have a life totally separate from "escorting". If you want a girl who will hop to the tune when u want it try an agency. Most independents are very good about communicating. I am too. But please, one email a day.


Read her website to avoid things like this.
Q. What are your rates?
A. They’re on my site?

Q. Where are you located?
A. Did you read my site?

Q. When are you available?
A. Did you check the calendar on my site?

Q. How much is it for you to come to me?
A. Well, did you read my site?

Q. (sent at noon) Can I see you this    afternoon?
A. I am not available to new friends for same day appointments or without screening. (That’s on my site)

Q. Do you do Greek?
A. Did you read my reviews?

The screening form

When is the last time you were beaten up, raped, held against your will or violently assaulted? Providers are at great physical risk when meeting someone for the first time. We as real professionals ask for your information for two reasons. The first is to make sure you aren’t a donut eating oinker. The second is to make sure you aren’t the nasty neighborhood sex offender. They are out there. Some target escorts because of the nature of our business. Most escorts will never file a report for fear of getting into legal trouble herself. Please take these two things into consideration. Yes there are some providers who keep information. We will most likely keep your email to use in the case that we are contacted to give you a reference this is helpful. Some keep names and telephone numbers. Some label their clients with client numbers to avoid names. I for one only keep a client’s first name and last 4 of their phone number. If they are a regular I discard all his information. If it is someone I haven’t seen within 6 months I tend to delete it. Now I know you gents have plenty of risks as well. I have read the horror stories. But I also haven't heard of a well reviewed lady with a great reputation assaulting you or putting you life at risk. Now we know some have kept information. Join preferred 411 or date check. Take some time to get the verification you need to actually hobby on a level that makes you and the provider comfortable. Getting a good provider to refer you is the way to go.

This is why a form is frustrating.

Name: Mike

Number: N/A

City: Atlanta

Date and time of booking: tonight

Provider reference: www.theeroticreview.com

Provider reference: www.theeroticreview.com

Work Reference: N/A

Comments: Hey I saw your web page and want to get together are you available tonight.


WHY would I come see you. This is what I see when I read your form.

Name: Mike (The donut friendly cop)

Number: N/A (can’t afford a cell phone/wife controls the purse/you think I’m stupid)

City: Atlanta (WOW I don’t even live in Atlanta)

Date and time of booking: Tonight ( are you insane? I’m in my pj’s)

Provider reference: www.theeroticreview.com (Okay and 700 thousand other ppl too)

Provider reference: www.theeroticreview.com (Did you read the newbie board)

Work reference: N/A (I don’t care who you work for as long as it’s not the sheriff’s department. I just want to verify that you DO work and WHO you are)

What we're usually doing when we're reading your email. Eating dinner. Trying to help with homework. Already in our pj's because most of us don't have time 9-5 to read email. We are usually working. Either on our backs (giggle) or in some other endeavor. We're NOT sitting at home, in thigh highs and a mini skirt waiting for your informationless email. Wouldn't that be nice but babe, that's THE FANTASY. Okay so on to another thing.....


Okay so am I making myself clear here? READ the provider’s website. I can’t tell you how many emails I get in a day asking for appointments in different cities and states even. YES some of my reviews are from Atlanta, some from Augusta, some from the Carolinas….BUT it clearly says on my website that I am from Augusta on two different pages. Clearly says where I am available as well.....So READ!


Okay so those are just my suggestions.

Lots of love to newbies. Once you guys get the hang of it there’s nothing sweeter than someone experiencing the hobby for the first time.

Alyssa


PS~ Forgot to ad, do not ever ever talk about $, sexual activity or anything like that with a girl when emailing or talking. Read her reviews. That's what you'll most likely get. YMMV with some but if she is consistent with others she will be with you. (That's on my site too).

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Thanks LusciousLissa for your information. As a newbie , I'm trying to learn as much as I can, and the information you provided was very helpful for a guy very new to the hobby.

I have to say thankyou. I am a newbie to escorting at hotels and am quite nervious as Orlando as been pretty hot. I get e-mails saying i'm a member of TER but thats it? You have done a great job of saying what I wanted to say but was just afraid it would bring a frown to everybodys face since i'm new around here. Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou  Haley

Fantastic post.  Great info for newbies, and good reminders for those of us who have been around awhile.

Again, thank you very much!!!

jazz32

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Well Well said!!  Do you mind if I copy this and send it in some emails?  Also would you consider going to my website and giving me some suggestions so my website answers all these questions like yours does?  Thanks Annie in Tulsa

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Thank you, LL, for both educating a newbie and making him laugh out loud! Great post.

Lengthy, but a wealth of info for the newb's, Alyssa.  I will thank you for all of them for what you posted and hope they will read it and learn.  I've only been hobbying for a little over a year, and I am still learning.

Swim  (btw, love the asspic)