Most have clubs in major cities, and some that have special nights at a club once a month. Search the www, or weekly free publications. Enjoy.  

My husband and I have had a really nice time with a couple of very nice providers. Not sure if you are open to this or the area you are in but we highly recommend this because we don't have much free time to play and very picky about who we choose to play with. Also it seems hard to find a couple that want the same things as we do and are both attracted to. May not be for you but it works well for us. Let me know if I can be any help.