We don't get a TER ID # until after we get our first review?

Your first reviewer will set your profile and TER will assign you a TER ID#

until you get a review, you are just a basic member just like the guys.  There is no distinction between male and female members until the female provider gets a review.  After you get the review, you can request for your profile to be linked to your handle and for limited provider VIP membership.