Newbie - FAQ

Contacting a Provider for First Time
nc_hello 11597 reads
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Hi.

I am new to this.

I emailed a couple of well reviewed providers to try to set up an appointment. I have not given out my name or info on this first email but wanted to get their interest level in seeing me first.

Got no esponse from either.

Is it a good idea to give out alot of personal info ( name business phone address) on an initial email not knowing whether the provider is really interested in seeing you?

How do I get their attention?

Thanks.

spinner39 35 Reviews 11451 reads
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First you need to show a real interest in seeing them... even if you don't in the end... You also must give them enough info. so they feel comfortable talking with you and that your not LE. Introduce yourself and say hello, give them your first name, an email address that they can reach you at and a safe phone number for you that they can call. Explain that you are new to this process and ask for their help.  Build a good rapport first then ask questions as you need.  But remember you also must have a safe comfort level to work from.  hobby safe hobby well hobby all you can be ...........

lexus714 See my TER Reviews 10529 reads
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Please do your homework before u contact a lady, only ask questions that are not anwered in her ads/website/ reviews.

I'm really not happy at all when someone calls me and asks about the donation ammount ,my nationality,location, my stats, weight, height etc.... Everything is in my website!!!!!!!

And when you call, please state your name, where ur located, where did u get the lady's number ( where did u see her ad ) and u looking for incall/outcalls at what time and date .

For first time call, please tell semething about yourself and find some proof to prove that your not LE, do not mention activities and money, the lady will hang up on you, or block your email address.

Please spend time to do your homework !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rb288 8449 reads
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Just a bit of advice:

You need to remember the nature of the hobby.
You are asking a very nice lady, in most cases, to accept an intimate encounter with you.
Alot of this hobby is mutual trust. You trust that she won't use your information in a bad way and she has to trust you that you are sincere, really interested, not some whacko, or LE.
The only way to do that is to verify, as best she can, with personel information provided by you.
If you are really interested in joining the hobby, you must trust her.
Give her some information, explain that you are new and unsure how to proceed, and again, TRUST her.
You said you had contacted well reviewed ladies, they will let you know how to proceed.

Once you realize that she is not going to misuse your information, you can get down and start enjoying you time with the beautiful, classy women of the hobby community.

Just my opinion.

xenopus 25 Reviews 9362 reads
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1] Send a few emails out.  Be patient, sometimes they wait a few days to catch up with stuff.  
2] Read her website carefully-don't ask her what is posted.
3] You need not give more than your first name unless her site asks you to do so.  Make it clear you will give her all the information she needs when you set something up.  
4] Make the email text as 'normal' as possible, as if you are setting up to meet at a bar or dine together.  

Good luck

wayneo1211 1 Reviews 7978 reads
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never say your new you will get rip of just it out if they press you for a time its and agency whice is okay just know what your getting and be perpared to say no

czz2211 9768 reads
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