reviews

every reviewer has their own style..some are short and concise..others ramble on forever..some like it flowery and romantic..others graphic and hot..you make up your mind..every review has to be approved..if it is OK with them..it should be to you too..

Look, there is a lot of "fluff" that goes into many of the reviews. Some are just good reads. Do some guys flat out lie? Yes. But I think you will find, for the most part, almost all of what you read is probably true in terms of the sexual activities that happened between the two (or three! lol). Sure, some reviews are flat out fakes for guys get 15 days free VIP membership for each review they write, but many of the women report that to TER and they can have them removed if the evidence warrants. Forget all the Harlequin novel romance b.s. you read. Instead look for what the girl does (i.e. BBBJ, DATY, etc) and how well she does it and if you think you would be compatable personality wise. Dont read too much into any one review and give weight to a trend in reviews and an overall history of reviews about the lady to get a better, all around picture of her.

Once you've been around  awhile and read plenty of reviews, you'll realize certain reviewers are tough scorers and others,  are easy scorers. Sometimes before even reading the review, I'll check to see how the reviewer scores and who he's seen. If we've seen the same providers and have given similar scores, than I put more trust in the review.

...the real life realization of Fabio romance novel cover images?  Tell me I'm not the only one?

Only kidding...

I agree with the earlier posters.  People have their own style.  I tend to be less "check off the boxes to indicate if these services were included" and more about describing the lady in my encounters, the environment, how she smelled, the texture of her skin, her appearance, the atmosphere, etc.  So, I tend to be less concise

My excuse is that..outside of a couple experiences...I've been really lucky so far.  Each lady I've been with is a cherished memory.  Some I will never ever see again.  Even still, I rarely go for a in/out/over type experience. I almost always do longer dates.  Call me a 'doter' if you must...but, I reminisce about each experience.  They are really special to me (I like chick flicks too).  In my defense...I don't do this often...so...I have only a few good experiences to remember. And that makes them more significant to me.  For instance...

I was with an Aussie once and I can still hear her say "would you like to have sex now?" in a lilting and mischievous accent from down under when I close my eyes and think back.  She was lying her face off...but, I went from zero to fully pitched in no time!  She's part of the reason I became a big fan of Tippy on Satisfaction (Australian Showtime series about a high-end brothel down under).  My aussie lover was a pretty close rendition of "Tippy" in appearance and voice.  (And...several of the ladies on that show are very hot)

On another occasion, a young lady really surprised me with her body art. I knew she had tattoos...but, I wasn't aware of how many and I didn't know about her piercings and other body mods.  She got my engine revving like never before.  It was like she was from some existence completely foreign to me.  She also had this quirky little smile and absolutely smelled like heaven...or at least what I imagine heaven to smell like.  I spent 10 minutes just taking in the smell of her hair (which I'm sure she loved ).  Oh...and she had these incredibly long nails on one hand...a bit like she had really narrow and long guitar picks on each finger.  She would flip her hand palm up and drag her hand across my back so the tips of those nails would just barely graze the surface of my skin.  It felt amazing!  

So...you get the point...I like to describe things and often speak in metaphors, analogies, and similes.

That's my style...and many probably don't make it this far in my posts ;P

But, I'm sure there's a few out there who do...so I guess I'm writing for them.

-- Modified on 2/4/2013 11:05:48 PM

Like with everything in life, you have to vet that information.

If you weight every single restaurant review in Yelp the same, then you are doing the same thing.

Check the reviewers' other reviews, and see if the reviewer shares your tastes.  See if the reviewer appears to know what he is talking about.  See if he rates girls that you know in a similar way, or if he tends to give every girl the same ratings.

You have to do your own research to determine the quality of the review.

To others, not so much.