So tonight I called my first lovely lady, her citures were amazing, so i called her up. On the phone she was very direct and to the point. I was nervous but still went with it. I told her my info and then she said she would call me back. After 15 mins she called me back and said she would be there in an hour. She came on time, i expressed my nervous feelings to herr, she said asked why, maybe wantingg to be empathetic. However she insisted that i give her the money. So i gave her the money and she said that we shoudl go to the bedroom. She kept insisteing that i tell her what i want to do. being new i didnt know what to say, so i asked her why, she said that it was because she needed to determine how much she was going to charge me. I was shocked. i was under the assumption that the fee was just to spend time with her, but that didn't seem to be the case. We talked a bit and then after her that she took off. She only staye for a half hour at max. Is that normal? she said that since she didnt say anythign about fullservice and and said something about a maximum 1hr for the time that everythign was legit. Is this kosher or abnormal. How do i go about in the future finding a lovely lady to spend time with, making sure that her pcitures a legit, making surer that she doesnt charge any additional fees and that she doesn peace out on me early. if any one has any ideas i would love it. i dont like wasting my titme and money.
It sounds like you did your shopping with your "little head" rather than your brain.
You were a victim of "up selling" which is a practice common with providers that have NO reviews, and thus NO accountability.
TER's main function has been to provide "accountability" in the hobbying community. The reviews found here will reflect that, and the ladies who have accrued a long list of favorable reviews are not likely to tarnish their good record by engaging in "up-selling" or other dishonest practices that can and will be reported in a review.
Hi Peanut, Most all ladies want the donation up front. Everything was normal until (I gather) you got to the Bd Rm. Whether she planned to or not, you showed that you could be scammed so she did. Or she might have been concerned that you might be LE. In my experience, when a lady asks "What do you like?" or words to that effect... you've got to say SOMETHING. If she offers you anything specific, and you turn out to be LE, she's just solicited you and that's all that's needed for an arrest in most jurisdictions. Some ladies will take that chance & offer a menu, but most will not. Most professionals have a web site where the menu is listed. Again, in my limited experience... I say "I like everything" or "let's see what comes up" (grinning).
If you are new to this, than you need VIP to read the reviews. Check the the reviewers have several reviews. Your experience will always vary with individual chemistry, but it gives you a approximate range... and the assurance that it's not a scam.
It's not wrong to tell a provider that you're new... after a couple of false starts (yes, I got scammed too) I found an honest provider who broke me in right. She's my ATF now...
Newbies are at greatest risk of being scammed. The cost of VIP is much less that 1 wasted date. skb
Now for some free education, read the Newbie Manual above cover to cover and also pay attention to the many threads on this and other boards here at TER.
The next money you spend will hopefully get you some return on your investment.
Also, do us all a favor and right a review of this provider to help another hobbyist avoid this pitfall. I believe that what you had constitutes a legitimate session that should score about a 1.5, since she did talk to you for half and hour at least.
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