Being nervous is nothing unusual. It would not hurt to let her know it's your first time. Most experienced providers know how to put first-timers at ease, it would not be a turn-off for her.. Many ladies really enjoy being the first for a client.
A little conversation before settling into the action never hurts, it will probably help you relax as well. I would not go into great details about your private life, nor should you expect her to do it either, it's play for pay, not a boyfriend/girlfriend date.
If you want her to be a reference for you in the future, simply ask her. Do NOT use her as a ref w/o talking to her about it, providers do not like that kind of surprise.
Regarding your allergy, that might be a problem from what you describe. If the sheets are not washed with detergent, how else is she going to keep them clean? You certainly don't want to be playing on dirty sheets. This is definitely something you should let her know about IMHO.
I'm nervous, a good nervous. I, contacted a few providers via email (4). Just a short polite email nothing specific, nothing vulgar (which is just wrong), just a date and time, something you'll send to a friend. No response or wanted reference or etc. Well, one okay me via work number, there's the email acknowledgement I got today from an agency.
This would be well... my very first time and the provider is extremely gorgeous and I, obviously, never even met her before. Any words of encouragement? I don't want to do or say something stupid. Should I tell her it's my first time or is that a complete turn off? I probably shouldn't and just follow her lead right?
I'm a bit of a conversation person. It seemed based on reviews she likes to talk, which is great for me. But is it okay to talk in detail about your private life? Also, how do you get a reference? For reference just write her name and number?
Y'know in retrospect... don't LE have second non LE related jobs as well???
The only thing that might be an issue is that I have sesitive dry skin. If the sheets were washed with detergent I'm not okay with a small section of my skin might turn slightly red and go away by itself in a couple min. If I scratch it it might be slightly raised. It's not bad, my skin isn't okay with the detergent, or wool, which is bad for me. Anyone with same issue?
Being nervous is nothing unusual. It would not hurt to let her know it's your first time. Most experienced providers know how to put first-timers at ease, it would not be a turn-off for her.. Many ladies really enjoy being the first for a client.
A little conversation before settling into the action never hurts, it will probably help you relax as well. I would not go into great details about your private life, nor should you expect her to do it either, it's play for pay, not a boyfriend/girlfriend date.
If you want her to be a reference for you in the future, simply ask her. Do NOT use her as a ref w/o talking to her about it, providers do not like that kind of surprise.
Regarding your allergy, that might be a problem from what you describe. If the sheets are not washed with detergent, how else is she going to keep them clean? You certainly don't want to be playing on dirty sheets. This is definitely something you should let her know about IMHO.
Y'know I feel kind of wierd that I'm not doing this for the first time with a girlfriend. I suppose it's cultural conditioning that is making me feel this way. I'm not really close to anyone, just work buddies and that's it. Haven't meet anyone, if I do they aren't interested or dating. I dunno, I kind of gave up finding a girl and at 26 I kind of wish I tried harder. I just assume that I'll just bump into her. I had like 1 potentially real relationship from 6yrs of friendship and it ended well... crappy. We aren't even friends anymore.
I dunno, I guess I feel like I'm about to cheat or something. I mean... i dunno too much thinking I suppose. But hey, I want to do this already. I wonder if after this, I would A) Continuing hobbying or B) Try harder finding that girl. hmm..
btw, Do you think I should automatically put the tip in the donation envelope? seems odd tipping afterwards.
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