Re: Going to take the dive

DO YOU OR DON'T YOU?
I QUESTION IF MR. HAPPY WOULD WORK IF MY HANDS WERE SHAKING. Really, pick someone who has the reviews with some feedback that would help you be comfy.
This is for fun. lol

OK, YOU NEED TO DECIDE IF YOU CAN OR CANNOT.
Make sure you pick someone that has very good reviews and can make you comfy. If not a vip pay and do more research. This is for pleasure. enjoy lol

If you played sports when you were younger, hobbying is the equivalent to the big game.  You have butterflies the morning of your date but as the anticipation builds so does your tension.  After the first kiss, everything goes smooth, just like you envisioned it.

be sure to tell us how it went.

I still get nervous, especially with a new-to-me provider.  If she knows you are a newbie, she will try to help you to relax.  Just enjoy!

Swim

I still get butterflies before I see someone new, I hope that feeling never goes  aways.

If you picked a lady with many reviews she has seen newbies before and will make you feel comfortable.

I agree with keystone about that welcome kiss and from there just let things flow. I find it's those quiet moments that can be very uncomfortable so for me my kisses last from the time I open the door till I leave.

Have fun and don't forget to write that very special first review

Kisses Haley

I always get nervious on a first date.
skb

Congrats for digging in and finding the right girl for you..hope all your future times with a provider is as exciting as your first!
Jay

That is great!  I'm still doing research and trying to get my screening straight.  I know I'll feel the same as you on the "big day", hell I get that feeling just doing the research.

Good Luck

Re: Dive in head first...

Like Swimtrekr said, even after three years, I still get nervous when meeting a new friend. The anticipation and imagination are wonderful if you let them work in your favor. These are some terrific ladies, and it sounds like you have chosen one who will know just what to do. Let it happen. That first kiss is going to be heavenly.

Re: Going to take the dive

I am a provider and here is a little secret ... I get butterflies too!  And I have to admit that it is definitely turn on for me.  So I guess these little pretty butterflies fly both ways ))

Lina

Re: Going to take the dive

Exactly one month ago I did just like you. I first did all my research on TER, read everything and asked a lot of questions on the newbie board. I just met my 4th ATF since diving in. It just gets better and better. My only problem is not letting my new found youth out pace my wallet!! I've written 2 reviews and have 2 more to write. It's thrilling to write them and then actually get to read them. I thought life had left me behind in the sex dept. but boy was I WRONG!! Happy hunting!!

hope you let us know how it went

and who the gal was who had you so nervous!