It went well.  I had done my research on this one provider for around a week.  Call and she didn't pick up at first and I didn't leave a message, she called back with one ring, so I called her back and made plans.  Took me around 40 mins to get there and I was freaking out the whole time driving.  Once I got there, I man'd up and started acting like a big boy.  She made me feel so comfortable.  While we talked for a few, I told her that this was my first time, she stated that she couldn't believe it b/c I was really calm.  I just let her take control and let all the jitters in my mind subside.

She then questioned why I picked her for my first encounter, she seemed really shocked that I picked her for my first. (don't know if she was just putting on an act or not) I don't know if she felt insecure about herself.  She was an older larger lady, 16 years older than I am from our conversation and not the prettiest....but I was really curious about being with an older lady.  She complemented me on my tattoos, my body and she stated that she typically doesn't see her encounters with soft skin and hair like me. (didn't ask what type of guys come through, out of fear of her response)

All-in-all, I had a really good time with her.  At the end, we talked for a while....got into a good conversation about each others lives and I was curious to find out what led her to do what she does.  I will definitely repeat.  I have to say the worst part about the whole experience is making that initial contact

Congrats on reaching big boy dom

I spent like a year reading reviews (non-VIP)...I didn't even know there was a discussion board or that may have prompted me to pull the trigger earlier.  My first time was definitely nerve wracking too.  When I finally got the room number, I couldn't find the friggin elevator.  When I got to the floor, there was a guy with his back turned just kinda standing at the end of the hall.  I couldn't tell what he was doing and I LE (or pimp) thoughts were running through my head.  I was so worried about it, that I walked past the room and continued to walk around the corner.  I then got my big boy pants on and decided to risk it, so I went back and knocked on the door...and I was SOOOO glad I did...that was a fun night.

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Congratulations.  You did it correctly, you did your research!  My advice is always arrive a little early to get a lay of the land, but always be discreet so you don't stand out.  The guy you saw was probably trying to find the room number of his provider

It does become easier with time.  My rule of thumb is I want the prover to be more nervous about seeing me than I am her....if she requires lots of information that is ia good thing if it references about  providers and the like.  Endeavor to keep you personal information unknown if possible (and it is).  The nervousness waines with time, but keeping a bottle of water in the car as you are on your way is good to do. Take a bottle of unopened wine for your appointment (ask what she likes), it provides an opportunity for conversation during the initial meeting and a good swig will relax you when it is opened.  Enjoy the hobby.

First time is always the scariest.

Now you see its nothing to be scared of and just enjoy....

the first session is like riding your new bike..you arent sure what to do and certainly dont know where you are going..a good first provider is your set of training wheels..a bad first provider will set you off on the wrong course..once you get the hang of it..the rides keep getting better and better..

Im glad your first one was a success. Cant say the same as I picked my
first one off Craigs List..LOL..  
   I sure hope you share your experience in detail with us with your review...
 Sounds like your on your way to enjoying the hobby. I wish I knew about TER
when i was starting out. Surely would have saved me a lot of aggravation and wasted
money. have fun and be safe .

I will post one up soon. Thanks guys

I'm a newbie and I still haven't taken the plunge yet... definitely nervous. But this kind of post eases my mind a bit. Thanks

got yourself a MILF.

My first time was also nerve racking, I did it after a stressful day at work. Didnt do much research and the girl wasnt the one on the ad but she was beautiful. I came right away, then we talked for a couple of mins then she let me go again. The second try went on for like 1/2 hr straight and she seemed to enjoy it too, she was breathing hard and hugging me tight. I was an experience I will never regret, hopefully me next one would be as great !