There are many reasons why reviews are not always accurate. First of all, there is the Rashoman Effect http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rashomon_effect where the same event is given contradictory interpretations by different individuals involved. Many times, this is innocuous.
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He: "We did it on the bed, the sofa, the chair and the ceiling!"
She: "There was no sofa in the room at that hotel."
Something like that (sofa / no sofa) is no big deal.
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Some are due to delusions of grandeur.
He: "She opened the door and she came three times before I took my shirt off! ... I banged her so hard she was begging for mercy. ... I came on her face so bigly that she couldn't see a thing."
She: "The blast of cold air from the hallway made me shiver. ... I begged him to move his damn elbow away from my kidney, he was leaning on it so hard. ... I wasn't sure if he was finished so I had to ask, 'Are you finished? I don't see anything.'"
And many similar exaggerations that will not affect what others might expect from you.
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Some are just plain mistakes and misunderstandings made during the action and some come from writing a review after a long (up to 90 days) lapse and intervening meetings. My best example is the Condom Ninja: she works her way down from face to chest to groin and I am in a state of what I think is BBBJ bliss. As she rises up to hop on board, I recover quickly enough to stop her and shout, 'Condom! Condom!' and she has to point out the condom is already there. How the hell did THAT happen?! CONCEIVABLY, there could be a circumstance, the likelihood increased by booze or drugs, that someone will not realize that his hostess had slipped on the condom, done all the work, and removed the evidence without his realizing it. If reviewed, a FALSE claim of BBFS, but due to his state of (or lack of) awareness.
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In the event of a stripper slide, was there penetration or not? Rashoman says, "Yes. I felt the pinch." Delusions of Grandeur says, "Yes, of course! She couldn't resist me!" Misundertanding says, "Yes! It was rapture of the deep, deep in her!" A long delay in writing says, "And then I was inside. Or was that with Mary a few weeks later? Or was it with Susie? I'm not sure, but I think it was Ciera."
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The untrue implication of unsafe practices can have a greater impact on your business if others are misled by an exaggerated review. You should certainly email or PM the reviewer try to get things clarified ... and hope that it doesn't come down to he-said / she-said argument.
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You can also make clear in your ads that "I am concerned about our mutual health and safety and always insist on safe pratices." to alert them reviews to the contrary might be inaccurate.
Posted By: CieraChanelleXXX
I logged onto my account today and I decided to check out my reviews, and saw one form a client I saw recently, in the review he fabricated an entirely different story about me doing bbfs and stripper slide with him! I've had calls and emails and texts coming in asking about bbfs and I usually don't respond to inquires like that and I was wondering why I was getting so many, I just figured out why! How is he allowed to write something so false and damaging? What can I do about this? I'm really astonished that one could easily fabricate whatever he wants and tarnish my rep like that.