Just wondering what you do if by reading all the reviews on a girl there are conflicting options.  Some reviews state CIM some say it wasn't on the menu.  Also some reivews state CBJ and some say BBJ.  So if you are not supposed to use any explict terms in any email correspondence how are you to determine what is truely on the menu.  Hate to make an appointment to find out CIM isn't on her menu.

As Hiddenhills points out, many providers will determine how far they will go with a client based upon that client's cleanliness, demeanor and behavior, to name three.

On top of that, some client do not want to expose themselves to anything so they will insist on everything being covered.

There are probably more reasons that things could vary but those are two to consider.

Sometimes you just never know. A provider may take a fancy to you and let you CIM, or offer bbbj when her profile says cbj. These are the things that make the hobby frustrating at times. TBH, I have been offered services not on the menu (greek), and when this occurs, I don't mention them in my review.

If they are all over the place, it is not a good sign.  YMMV may work in your favor, or not.  Why take the chance that it won't?

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You must rely on reviews.   A well reviewed provider should have several reviews, including some by experienced reviewers.   Check the individual reviewers...  take the experienced reviewers over the newbie if they differ.  
YMMV is always a watchword in any pairing...  but between her ads, her website, her TER profile (written by her first reviewer & often not updated), and her most recent reviews...  you should have a good idea before you call.  If you want a particular menu option & you are not sure, best pass for someone who DOES consistantly.  
skb

And here are a few more variables:

1) some of the reviews are bogus - fiction written for fun, or to gain VIP hours
2) some of the better reviews are partially bogus - the meeting happened but the writer embellished to inflate his own ego, to suck up to the girl, or to add juicy details to get the thing published in the first place.
3) Some portion of the bad reviews are partially bogus - he tried to hurt her because she wouldn't give him what he wanted, give him a discount, or whatever...
4) Not all providers are created equal. Some have substance abuse or other issues that affect their performance greatly from one day to the next.


and so on