hello, I went to a massage Parlor, last week, and I can not stop thinking about the woman, and going back. I do not consider going to a masage parlor a hobbie, or just for fun, I am a 37 yr old lonley guy. I thought by going to a massage parlor it would make me feel more at ease, when meeting other women to date. by going I only feel more desire for this women at the parlor. I am thinking that mabe massage parlors may only be right for married men who are already emotionaly attached to someone else. someone like that can have sexual fun whithout the want to fulfill the lonliness and emotional attachment felt by single guys. and one more thing are condoms safe??  I would appreciate any comments or opinions  thank you     BOB

The best way to handle this is to come to the realisation that the women that work in this industry are doing a job, to make you feel good, to keep you coming back. They don't want you for a boyfriend. You aren't going to save them. They want your money and for you to leave when that money is gone.
They are interested in your money, as sincere as she may have been,  she wants your money, not your love, other than to keep you coming back.

Interesting that you would mention this. I have been married 24 years and I still find myself with feeling for 1 or 2 of the girls I have met that seems crazy under the circumstances.  I even considered one my "girlfriend" for a couple of months (overnight and multiple hour sessions for no charge). However, on reflection it really can't work out for either party, so I would strongly recommend that you go for some variety and not visit this girl for at least a month.

Rustproof is exactly correct in the way you had better think and approach this...However, I have become very good friends with at least three providers. I have done them favors (help them out when they need a ride) and they have done me favors and returned the acts of kindness. Most of these ladies have PIMPS and if you think for a minute they don't need someone on the outside your really mistaken. I had a young beautiful lady come by one time about two months ago and I notice a bruise on the side of her face (even the makeup couldn't hide it) and when I asked her she said nothing but was obviously keeping in a lot of emotion. I had seen this before so I pressed her and she just broke down. These ladies get beat if they don't make a quota, they get don't really get jack shit in return, except maybe a bad review and a lie here and there. So to say they have or can't have emotion towards anyone is not true. One has to realize that this is a whole different world in and of it's own. I will tell you this (I hope you PIMPS are reading this) I wish I could get my hands on one of these bastards because I would asked them this (before I kicked the shit out of the punk ass bitch) and that would be does he feel like a man when he hits her????

the only other (totally-safe) alternative is abstinence, according to the surgeon general(s)

as for the "emotional attachment" ... believe me, you'll thank us later ... or you will find out the HARD WAY

if there's anything good about the "hard way" it's that most often it conditions you NOT to repeat your mistakes. kinda like a child after he/she gets burned by something hot the first time!