Help, I'm a first timer and standard condoms are way too tight and restrict blood flow and enjoyment. I know most gals supply the bags and I don't want to ruin a good time. If I supply my own larger size would most perfer lubed or unlubed? What brand is best? I don't want to feel like a stick of butter if given a cbj or feel like i'm licking a tub of crisco later?

Go with Trojan Magnums, unlubricated. It is always easy to add lube later if you need it and there are better lubes than the ones that come on condoms.

As the previous poster said, go with unlubed.  It's easy to add it later, some people are iritated by spermicidal lubes that come on lots of condoms, and they're not very tasty for a lady doing CBJ.

While you're trying out your own supply of condoms, you might want to look into the "new designs" that are supposed to be looser in certain areas and thus supposed to feel better.  I haven't goten a chance to try 'em yet, but I definately agree that "standard" condoms are too damn tight.