What are limited activities to prevent STD – HIV, Herpes

People on this board enjoy a lot.  I would like to know what are your limited activities to prevent STD – HIV, Herpes?  How many providers (percentage) and hobbyist with HIV?

STDs can be spread by oral sex, but the chance of catching one are much smaller than from unprotected intercourse. I don't know the actual %, but it's low.

People don't advertise their HIV status, so I have no way of knowing that.

The only falisafe way is abstenance, but since you're not likely to find much of that here, it's all about how much risk you re willing to live with. If you do a search on this board, you'll find countless threads about STD's.

I maintain, as do most folks here, that you're safer with the ladies here than you are getting laid out of a bar.

I am full of things I want to say but this I have to say. Yes You are more safe with a provider that uses protection every single time than you are with the gals you can pick up at the bar. I thought you guys wouldn't figure that out.

... do you think that anyone who has the disease will actually open up?  If the doctor won't tell anyone even their family if a patient has HIV, what makes you think that person will tell everyone here?