I was recently informed that standard condoms were causing me to lose my erection because they are too tight. She suggested I use magnums? or Lifestyles with the larger head. Here is my question:

If you are not supposed to talk about sex during the initial contact, how do you let them know about the need for bigger condoms? I know that bringing my own would fix everything, but some ladies are more comfortable knowing that they bought them.

I really like the Fem Condom, but there are quite a few ladies that don't use them.

Any suggestions about the topic would be a big help.