I was perusing local listings for a provider and I found one that actually works at a local restaurant. A real cutie that just served me (and my girlfriend) a few days ago. She would remember me probably. So I have a chance to be with the smoking hot waitress I was just fantasizing about. Other than it being awkward for her, awkward for me, increase the risk of getting caught, come off as a creepy stalker vibe, I can't see any reason not to do it.

Ya, I know. I just had to tell somebody.

Since you mentioned see saw your girlfriend, you don't want any drama in the future. Plan it out, discuss it, and take necessary steps with the provider. Hell, she might give you a discount cause she saw you at her restaurant. That's pretty cool. Yeah, I know a lot of hot waitresses. Sometimes I just want to offer them bigger tips for them to leave with me--but it'll make me look like a freak.

Anyways, be careful since she somewhat already knows. I'll definitely go see her though, hell, at least you broke the ice for initial meetings.

You know, the kind that kept texting even though you were ignoring the texts, stalks you on yahoo messenger and tries to chat when you check your email. stalks you on the the dating site where you first met... omg.. go away!

Then he tries to book with me!

I've had a few ex-coworkers see my ads and try to book with me. Hell no! I may be their fantasy, but they sure as hell aren't mine.

With this situation, you are still a stranger to her on a professional level, so that part of it shouldn't be an issue.

But what will creep her out is your ability to get her in trouble. It's very dangerous for any provider to have anyone know their "stage persona" and also their "real identity." You could tell her manager and get her fired, so just book, live out your waitress fantasy, but let her be "Tiffany" during the session without bringing up her "real world" occupation. If she's smart, she won't let on that she recognizes you during the session or even back at the restaurant. Let her have her double life. She needs that to feel safe.

Thanks for the advise angelique. When are you coming to boston

I'm going to have to go with my big head on this one. To many cons not enough pros. I will however go to that restaurant with a different attitude  

haha! We can meet at that restaurant and I'll dress like a waitress! lol

Posted By: mitchcfz

Thanks for the advise angelique. When are you coming to boston

I'm going to have to go with my big head on this one. To many cons not enough pros. I will however go to that restaurant with a different attitude  

Dear Angelique:
I was just wondering what was your initial reaction when you first saw your co-workers information? I also was wondering would you be a Santa Claus of various sorts at the company Christmas Party now since you know who has been naughty or nice? Finally not that you would, but if you did see someone from work would you have a safe deposit box and a couple of hidden cameras recording for some insurance just to keep them in line. Also if you had a safe deposit box would you also make plenty of copies and give them to some of your best friends in the event that something might happen to you personally or professionally?