Hello all! This is my first post. I'm posting in the newbie section in case of any faux pas . . . More easily forgiven: ) I've been a member before but never posted. I've seen a handful of providers.

Forgive me if too graphic, but given the nature of the site I think it's fine. ..in your experience, are providers willing to take a facial? It's my favorite thing ever. If so, do they usually charge extra? I don't want to offend them by asking. I can understand that outcalls have to go see others straight after and prefer not to go there. I asked one if I could pay her more for it, and she reluctantly agreed. As it happened, she was complaining and unhappy about it so I totally aborted the mission midway through, which was a bummer and a waste of money.

What has been your experience?

In fact, there's one who insists on it.

You should ask, however.  Don't be shy.  If she is not into it, she'll just say so.  (Do not ask until you have met her, paid and have started other activites.)

Read up on the reviews.  Many guys talk about it.

Be very careful to keep it out of her eyes.  It really stings.

Use reviews to hire a provider whose profile and reviews show that she is ok with COF. Generally a bad idea to pay providers to do services that they do not offer as a standard menu item, more fee or not.

But had one provider unexpectedly insist on it. It's my favorite as well, so I always check reviews for any mention of it but they are few and far between. From what I've seen it's not something a provider would charge extra for if she's OK with it.

Many guys like to finish CFS, or (for BW) with a HJ, or however. The profile may not list it for gals that allow it, and there are usually not enough reviews to help either, IMO.

You just have to ask and ve willing to assure her you won't get hair, eyes, etc by your positioning.

ALWAYS be aware that there can be some stray damage. I'm generally not a shooter, but have had ricochet's off of boobs hit her in the face.

Ok, dumb question.  What is the attraction of COF? Not that there's anything wrong with it.  I've never done it, and not quite sure why it seems popular. Why am I working it, that should be her job.

For me, BBBJCIM is my favorite.  Nothing like seeing a cute face bobbing up and down on Junior, with some wet sloppy sucking action, and the occasional ball licking. Watching her DT with gag and feeling it hit the back of her throat.  Her soft lips firmly sliding up and down my shaft.  

Ok, got to go...

I like the visual myself.

A partial COF/CIM is great. It seems to extend the whole experience for me... to see it on her lips, or (for some ladies) licking their lips & fingers to clean up. There is a very powerful psychological message of acceptance for a woman to want to take what is (psychologically) considered to be the essence of a man.

IMO, part of the difference in personal experiences with COF will be if you tend to be a visual or other type of personality.

One of the better examples I've had. She did a great job to start, pulled me out at just the right time for a partial COF and then back into her mouth to finish.

I personally don't mind as long as I have a little warning, usually the client will ask first.

It's the porn thing. How many BJ have you seen where it is not done. It is all about showing that "in fact" a orgasm has occurred. I'm with you CIM is much more preferred and pleasurable. However you do not want a provider who charges more for that, many will allow it. But always ask first!!!

And I'm very visually oriented. CIM is nice, but I can take it or leave it. My absolute favorite is COF/COB and the lady immediately taking it in her mouth to get the last remains out.

Feeling accepted is very important to many people, and they are not even consciously aware of this need.

and in so, you will get different answers..If it weren't asked, and someone just did it, I would get annoyed..I have a lot of hair and only do outcalls.. Only thing I would ask is no hair please..but if I knew it were on the menu, a ponytail cums in handy

Thank you all for your replies!  I guess it all goes back to communication.  She'll tell me what's okay